Heys guys as you know I’am going through a divorce and there’s no chance of reconciliation. Also at this point, I see now divorce is the best thing for the both of us. She has been going out every night doing god knows what with whoever. So I said to myself let me start doing the same. Been looking on doublelist for a while and found some guys that we’re into chubby guys. One guy I planned to met up with I chickened out. I wasn’t ready yet. But this weekend my wife went to her girlfriends house in Boston and I said I was going to have me some fun. I found a guy on doublelist and we arranged to met Saturday at a hotel. We were emailing back and fourth about what we were going to do to one another. I booked the hotel cleaned myself out, I wanted him to pound me something good. It was set to go down at 8:00pm. 8:30,9:30 nothing no response from him. I guessing he was the one that chickened out this time. I guess it wasn’t meant to be this time but there will be another.
Sorry your plans are not working out. I hope at least you're letting guys know you're not going to meet if you decide you're not ready. But don't expect them to return the same courtesy of you do. You see what an inconvenience it is when you make plans and prepare and the guy doesn't show up, not to mention the disappointment of not getting any. But I'm glad to see you moving on, trying to take care of a sexy need you weren't able to before. I hope you actually meet with a great guy soon and you two have an awesome time together.
Stay positive and keep searching and communicating and your dreams will come true. I know how frustrating it is as I've had a few guys not show up and it's frustrating but I never let it stop me from searching. Hey, at least you are moving forward with your life and that's the most important thing. Now you will have the freedom of inviting a guy or visiting a guy without the worries of her opinions. I divorced after 25 years 8 years ago and boy did I explore my gay side with many other married men for lots of mutual oral. No more guilt as I pursued my desires for sucking cock. Hang in there and don't give up.
I think it's happened to all of us at one time or another. Hang in there and keep trying it will happen. Hopefully soon for you John.
Well guys I finally went through with it and bottomed for a guy i met on doublelist. He lived in my area and I sent him some pics of what he would be fucking and he wanted to but couldn’t host. As you guys know i’am going through a divorce and my wife has been at her mothers house since Christmas Eve and she doesn’t have the car As I dropped her off. So I was hesitant at first to have him to my house. But in the end I wanted to be fucked. He came over and we got naked and jerked each other off. He said he was ready to fuck. He put on the condom luped my ass and he fucked me. The only problem was that he wasn’t that big and he came in like a minute. But at least I did it. After he left I texted him if he had any friends that wanted to fuck to let me know.
Congratulations! It must be such a happy day for you! First times are usually awkward but I hope you establish a friendship with him and he gets to fuck you again soon. And hopefully he has a lot of friends. You're in for a really good time, I'm sure!
In my limited experience, gay guys are the absolute best at keeping dates. Haven’t had one flake on me yet. Now the bi’s, especially married ones, can’t be counted on for nuthin.
i found a guy in doublelist there wasn't much bacj and forward emails. we met in a parking lot at 3 in the morning. i got into his car he pulled his big cock out i started to suck it ,we got to the back seat he pushed me against the seat he ate my ass fingerme and for the first time i felt a hard big cock in my ass even tho it was big and only the head of his cock got in me. he cum and left. and i couldn't seat straight for days.
A big letdown isn’t it? You’re all excited for a fun evening and the bubble is popped that quick. I’ve had it happen several times before it got that that far. Casual meetings and no show or stop all communication a few days before. Just got to keep looking I guess. That’s all we can do.
A little advice... Never book a hotel room for a first time meeting until the other person is present. When you are texting or emailing and waiting for them to arrive...be on your phone looking for a plan B. When you have confirmation that the other person has arrived...then go get the hotel room and send them the room number. It sucked sitting in a room, bored and horny that you already paid for, knowing it's not going to happen. Don't waste the money and time when there's still a chance the other person can flake on you. If they don't show or go silent...just drive off. There's always next time.
