So I've never been with anyone before (haven't even kissed someone) and I'd like to experience something! Should I wait for the right girl to come around or should I find someone online to come hang out while I'm home alone and try something new? I've also fantasized about doing things with guys, so those are options too.
While the law states "consenting adults", I think that rushing into a physical relationship too fast could easily destroy the chances of a long term future with the person. It is hard to generalize and it all depends on circumstances and the chemistry that exists between you. Having sex with a new partner after drinking too much makes it quite likely that your first date with her will also be the last.
I'm just asking about experiencing new things with sex without relationships involved. Unless you're saying that I should wait for the right girl to date and stay a virgin even though I'm not dating anyone.
the poll choices are really weird. how do you actually expect to get a gay blowjob from a stranger? i always recommend making an effort to get stuff done; a guy who waits for the right woman before doing anything sexual will usually end up waiting too long and then will never have an opportunity because women over 15 don't put up with lack of experience in a guy. that said, you can't plan it like in your poll options. you just spend time with women (or men) and see what happens.
I'm not sure that's universally true (the part I highlighted in red.) I say that because I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 (out of high school and off to college.) Since then, every woman that I've had sex with, without exception, lost her virginity to me. (BTW, that was in no way planned by me with any of them.) So, you see, there do appear to be exceptions.
It's not a big deal to a girl if a guy is not experienced. That is something that guys worry about to impress other guys. In the girls mind you are a good guy. You don't use women and sleep around, you have no STD's, you are the kind of guy who might be nice to her. All of this is important. Find someone you like and just see where it goes. Be honest about the lack of experience. If she is a bitch about it she's not worth it anyway. If you come off as trying to hard to make something happen you will fail.
well nothing's universally true. i still say that what i said is generally true though. i don't see how the rest of your post shows an exception. it was just showing that even virgins prefer to have sex with a guy that's not a virgin.
I was 12 and my female friend was 14. She had huge boobs and her mom was single and worked. Fooled around over the summer months until we finally had enough courage to strip down completely nude and tried to have sex in her bed. I had a limp dick but I slipped it in somehow. I didn't even know how to fuck - I just sat there enjoying her warmth when all of a sudden I dumped a load. I said think I may have got you pregnant. She looked at the calendar and said we'll know by this date. Luckily I didn't.
Mine and her first time was in a friend's bed with a group of friends ( virgins) listening outside the door.
Maybe my experience isn't what you are looking for. But then again it probably wouldn't hurt either. You i don't even remember my first sexual experience anymore. I was used by my aunt as her personal sextoy for years. I've never fucked her. I've never even had seen her fully naked until the last couple of times we've been together. Before my mom caught her butt fingering me while she was sucking me off. She always played with me and enjoyed getting me hard and by the time I could making me cum. So I wasn't exactly inexperienced when It came to sex. But when I had talked a girl from our neighborhood who I had a huge crush on into getting naked with me. I premature ejaculated when saw her pussy close by the first time. Lucky for me I was used to cum multiple times during the playing with my aunt so I didn't have to disappoint her. We were both probably to young to have proper sex. But as far as I know we both enjoyed it. Strangely enough I can't remember if I actually broke her hymen. I am not going to suggest anything but when I think back, I remember that she wasn't as clumsy as some other virgin girls I've had sex with before I met my wife.
