First relationship...did I fuck things up?

I'm not on birth control as of yet. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together tuesday, he used a condom the first time...and the second time we had sex he pulled out. We had sex together the next day, but he never pulled out like I had expected he was going to. That next morning, we slept together one more time...and this time he didn't pull out either. I'm not worried about pregnancy(this was during my least fertile time of the month). But what I am worried about is him being upset when he finds out that I'm not currently on any birth control. Was I wrong in not discussing this with him from the get go? Would you be upset if you found out that your girlfriend wasn't on BC, even though you slept together without a condom?
This is my first, what I would consider "real" relationship. And I am very very worried that I'm going to fuck things up. I love him to pieces, and I know he feels the same way...but I really have NO IDEA what to do in most relationship situations. Please Help.

 

Don't forget that there is the Day-after pill, and no you did not do anything wrong really, I think that your boyfriend knows that he could have gotten you pregnant.

But in my personal opinion, you both are to blame if there was a pregnancy, trust me, you two seriously need to talk about this issue before you have any more risky sex, no joke, Talk talk talk!

just remember "It takes 2, but just 1 time"

 

i agree with the mailman. you guys should have used a condom. withdrawl is a crappy form of birth control. having an orgasm can sometimes cause an egg to be released. sperm lives for 4 to 5 days in th uterus. also, even the natural method of birth control has its flaws. i seriously doubt u take your temperature every day and kno wen and wen you aren't ovulating

 

Oh, and don't worry you did not 'fuck' things up, nothing happened, so just thank lady luck, and your boyfriend has no reason to be upset with you.

 

Was he ever under the impression that you were on BC? Like, did you tell him you were? If yall have never discussed what form of birth control you would be using, you need to. If you are not on hormonal bc's then use a condom.

You know what they call people who use the natural method of birth control?
Parents.

 

No, I never gave him any impression that I was on birth control. I know what we did wasn't a very good decision and it won't most certainly happen again.
I'll be going on birth control ASAP.
Thanks you guys.

 

Well as long as you didn't get pregnant or a STD. You gotta be careful in future babe Wouldn't want a cool Canadian chick like yourself in over your head

 

Thanks.
I know, it was stupid. And I wish I could take it back. I'm just still very new to all of this kind of stuff.
I like him so so so much, and I just couldn't handle him being upset with me. Boo.

 

yeaa ..it really is a good idea to make sure ur usin something.. i was having sex for months using this withdrawal method.. vv stupid i know!!!..all my wisdoms took flight from my head.. but i was soooOOoo luckyee!!!my hormones were all fuc*kd up at that time + i wasnt ovulating so much.. this was probably the only reason i didnt end up with a bayb