i was 14. it was actually my idea too. it ended up hurting like hell and i dident attempt for quite a while after
23, with dh didn't really have a choice so made the best of it, learned a few things over the years, like too much lube is not enough unless it is EROS BodyGlide Original, he always always has to go slow when pushing it into me, and I have to use a vibrator on my clit after he is in me, cumming with dh in my ass is gonna kill me some day, it feels so good...
I was 20 when I first had anal sex. The first time it really hurt, but it feels awesome now! I wish I had tried it earlier.
When I first had sex my vagina hurt, but it felt so good I wanted more. It is the same with anal sex. After the first time, there is no more pain, only pleasure. I just love having a penis inside me, either in my vagina or up my butt.
i'm still a virgin (hopefully not much longer) but i can't wait to try anal. So to give a number, lets hope 18. But as for now, i love when he slips his little finger in, ahhh. It's so hot
I knew a girl who made anal during a solid year before... trying vagina! she was completly crazy about anal and it had been her fantasm for years
Hmmm. I've been pretty conventional thus far. And while I know the boy is willing to have anal (actually, he's looking forward to it) i doubt he'd want me to do it before vaginal. But that is something to think about. Although I am terrified of the pain.
well, it depends how much you are prepared, how much you are excited... and how much gentle your friend is.... To finish with the girl I was talking about, she had a first anal at 16 (15?.....) and she told me the 1st time had been absolutly painless, the guy got in like "a letter in a mail box" - which is a French way to say that everything was great.
1) very excited 2) not gentle at all 3) i'm a fairly small girl, and even fingers hurt most of the time (but it's worth it.) 4) very very very excited still.
I'm not sure - girls an correct me if I'm wrong - but there is something very celebral about anal, for both the guy and the girl. To be relaxed the girl has to suppressher protective reflex and get completly open, completly given.... There is something that wouldn't be as exciting as it is if there wasn't a risk it may be painful. To get ore comfortable, you should prepare a tube of lube, just in case.
Plenty of lube is a must..none of that "spit on it" like in the porn movies. And yes, you must be relaxed..and to be relaxed she must feel very comfortable with the partner that she is with..the man must go slowly at first..once in and comfortably adapted..it's on!!
The porn movies are total crap when it comes to anal sex (be it straight or gay). They nearly always show it as being a standard penetration, with no problems at all. In reality I have been on both the giving & receiving end of anal sex many times, both with men & women, and when I am giving, due to my generous girth penetration is virtually impossible (usually totally impossible), no matter how much lube is used, but even when I am on the receiving end with men with much lesser girths it's still extremely difficult to manage a successful penetration. As I have said before, though, for some reason I always find it easier to manage anal penetration with women than I do with men - whether this is due to a difference in their skeletal anatomy of the hips or not, I have no idea, but at least it's always been possible with women, albeit a struggle, whereas very rarely has it been successful with men.
