Fingering

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Highroller131, Jul 21, 2005.

  1. Highroller131

    Highroller131 Member

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    Is it possible to finger someone bad?

    I usually can get a read on the girl im doin shit too but...this one was weird


    i was giving her a leg massouche and our other 2 friends were in the room, who also liked each other...but they couldnt see i was fingering her

    so i started rubbing it and u no playing with it...her legs were moving and shit....and then i started fingering her and i was going in and out going in circles and moving it to all parts :)...Well it was weird i couldnt tell if she was relaly into it

    she started pushing her ass up int he air and shit and her legs kept on popping up...but she wasnt really wet at all...does that mean it sucked??? I uno..

    and then when she got a phone call she had to get up and then she didnt come back...

    so from this, did i do a good job? lol

    basically if she wasnt wet...does that mean it sucked? even though she was bucking her ips...and is it possible to finger someone the "wrong way"
     
  2. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    maybe she didn't want you touching her in front of her friends. Because I sure as fuck wouldn't.

    Moisture doesn't equate with horniness or how turned on someone is. Sometimes I'm soaked but haven't thought about sex for days. I'm usually quite dry when I masturbate. Some girls are just like that.


    Maybe you should try TALKING to her about it.

    and yes, it's possible to finger someone badly. You can hurt her, not hit any major turn-on spots, or simply make her uncomfortable (with other people in the room especially) with what's going on.
     
  3. Casperthesheet

    Casperthesheet Member

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    Oh...it's possible. When I was about 14 I was involved with this one girl. Every lunch hour we would go to my house to fool around. Well, one day I decided to stick a finger up there...the problem was that my finger nails were SHARP. It ended with her crying and lots of blood coming out. It wasn't cool at all. I still feel bad about it.
     
  4. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    Yes it is possible to suck at fingering...

    Personally, it doesn't feel that great to have someone stick there finger up there, especially if I'm not in the mood for it. I like the clit tickeling the best. But all women are different.

    So next time, don't be an ass and try to act like a stud...

    She obviously didn't like it if she never came back...Personally, I probably wouldn't come back either.
     
  5. Highroller131

    Highroller131 Member

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    wouldnt she have at least told me to stop then??
     
  6. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    alot of girls dont know how to say "no"....
     
  7. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    Maybe she didn't want to seem ungrateful or rude...

    How long have you known her? Is she your girlfriend?
     
  8. Highroller131

    Highroller131 Member

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    it was actually the first day we hung out in a while...i use to be good friends with her...i wouldnt say best friends

    i always gave her massouches though she loved them...i never tried this though

    it was the first day we hung out all summer...so thats about a month and a half...

    if it helps...shes coming over again today with her friend....
     
  9. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    what is a massouches?
     
  10. Highroller131

    Highroller131 Member

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    A Massouch...I dont no how u spell it lol...Where u rub the back and stuff...u no...a masseuse gives a massouch...

    lol
     
  11. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    If that was the first time you've hung out in awhile, it might have been a bit innappropriate...
     
  12. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    well fingering someone in front of others is always inappropriate, but if she didnt want it, she could have obviously done something about it. not being able to say no is hardly an excusse, or way to go through life. maybe she was jsut a bit embaressed, but i know some women would absolutely love the risqueness of it
     
  13. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    agreed... obviously if she didnt like it she should have made some obvious hints... or said something... it was obviously inappropriate if she didnt lead it on either and you just decided to start fingering her.. also... personally i find fingering pointless... i can do the same with my tongue and its waaaay more fun that way
     
  14. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Or a massage. Whichever you prefer.

    Massouch? How the hell would you go about even pronouncing that?
     
  15. Highroller131

    Highroller131 Member

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    im sorry...im not in the world class spelling bee :)!

    it was close though right?!?!

    and she acme back today for more :)! so either she liked the riskness(her friend wlaked in on us today and she just laughed) or i was good...hopefully the 2nd one

    thanks eeryonr
     
  16. Gravy_Train_Gilmour

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    i haven't really been paying attention. i assume you're talking about trying to give her a moustache. if you just start fingering a girl while you're trying to give her a moustache, you're bound to cause some discomfort and make the relationship a bit more awkward. but you might want to give more information; handlebar moustache, hitler moustache, what exactly was going on?


    the most important to remember, kids? BRISTLY FACIAL HAIR AND VAGINAS DO NOT GO WELL TOGETHER.
     
  17. piscessunlibramoon19

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    She might have just been embarrassed, especially if other "friends" were there. I'm sure she liked it or she wouldn't have been moving like you said she was. Just cause she wasn't wet doesn't mean she didn't like it. Some girls don't get wet easily. Others can get wet really easily.
     
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