Does anyone like to finger their woman while she is giving a blowjob? Does the woman enjoy it? My wife seems to be "ok" with it but generally I think it interferes too much with her servicing me. I think it's hot and it makes me even harder. I want to try and also use a dildo on her while she is servicing me - who knows she may have a secret fantasy of being DP'ed.
OK, once again...just my viewpoint. It's according to the lady and how her body works. If anyone fingered me while I was doing anything to them, I would immediately STOP doing anything to them to concentrate on what was being done to me. This is not out of selfishness. My brain just shuts down if I'm getting stimulated. (why I've never been able to do 69 and have no interest in it... you touch me... mind blown). But of course that finger work is my yellow brick road to orgasm. If it were something MILD, I'd say it might be doable, but if you're insistent on doing something intense to someone who is servicing you... well the full service is going to fall by the wayside. You may always ask... and you may always try. I had a guy try to start talking to me while he was fingering me and I had to tell him to shut up. I needed to concentrate. I didn't mean to be rude, but I was about to slap him! He was running off with commentary. A "hot" or "go head on" might've worked. But I need focus on either you or me, unless it's ordinary sex. Service is just that. And I think it's OK to receive and not worry. Let the girl lie back and you can torture her with those fingers and she'll call out to you and Jesus. I'm sure that'll be hot and get you harder too!
Good info. I do it not for her pleasure but for mine if you can understand that but was curious about her pleasure. You are like my wife though - it seems to distract her while she is servicing me.
Yeah, I realize you're saying if you were doing something extra to her it would turn you on more. But, essentially, I'm saying get more into what she's doing and don't distract her and you'll get more turn on from just that. Let go and YOU get into being serviced more. Could end at the same place.
We are a senior couple. That said, My wife and I have an active sex life. However, we both are somewhat “one dimensional”. I get routine blow jobs to completion from her. When she is doing this, it is solely for my pleasure and to allow me blow my load. Only occasionally I do slip a finger in her, and it depends on what position she is in. Most of the time I knead her 38dd’s while I get blown. We don’t do 69. Neither one of us get much pleasure from that. When I do oral on her, it is “all” for her to lay back, and get lost in the fantasy world of her mind. Sometimes she grabs her DD’s. It funny, she says her breast and pussy are connected. She gets her best, most intense “O’s from me doing oral on her. They are strong and powerful. But it is because I am concentrating solely on her pleasure and I am in sync her state of arousal. It is explosive. We understand each other’s body. This comes from maturity and experience.
I feel ya.... I think it's hard for some men to allow themselves to NOT be active.... to not be in control... there's time and place for everything... Lie back and enjoy... Get up and give... With you panama!
I guess everybody's different . My wife always gets very turned on by being fingered while sucking my cock .She cums multiple times and gets all the more into it while she's cumming . We've also done it with the vibrator instead of my fingers . This works well for her too but it loses a bit for me . During some of these times is when I'd brought up the idea of having a second cock involved . Never got much response from that but then ,out of the blue years later , it happened . Can't tell you what to do if your wife is only "OK" with it . See my true story in "Sharing Wife Experience " posted today for some details.
i love it, its foreplay, giving head gets me wet but when the guy is playing really gets my motor running. i love 69 as well, but find if the guy is good i sometimes forget to suck and get a little carried away with just pushing myself onto his face and grinding
I learned from painful experience not to finger my wife or stimulate her significantly in any way while her mouth (and teeth) are around my cock. Her response to a finger touching her clit can result in a biting motion that isn't very pleasant. I caress her body, but stay away from the most sensitive spots while she is giving me a blow job.
Sure it’s nice, but hard to concentrate on sucking him properly though if he’s fingering me. Fun foreplay, but I prefer to take turns.
My wife loves laying on her back me kneeling next to head so she can suck my cock while she plays with her clit either with her fingers or with her vibrator. The closer she gets to coming the deeper she takes my dick in her mouth. I love her moaning with my dick in her mouth.
I totally get this! I was curious about sucking off a guy, and found someone last january. He actually was trying to blow me, but I asked if it was possible if I wanted to try it, if he was ok with it. He said he’d be on his bed waiting with very dim light on. He said I could either feed him my cock or I could jump on him and 69 him. Little did he know, I’m not into being blown by dudes....I went up to his room, took off my clothes and immediately jumped into 69. I worked his cock...it felt really amazing in my mouth. Within a few minutes he wanted me to stop because he didn’t want to cum to fast. He kept trying to blow me but I was focused on his cock. He finally gave way and let me finish him off. He came in my mouth....it was fucking hot. I had seen a photo of his wife and I imagined sucking him after he fucked her which later got me off. Mmmmm rethinking about this story is making me hard
This is a regular part of foreplay for my gf and me. She is in her 60s, and needs a lot of lube and manual stimulation to get off. So, she lays on her side with me positioned on my knees in front of her face, and then she takes my cock into her mouth, mostly working on the head of my cock-- not to get me off, but to get me as erect as possible. Meanwhile, I squeeze out a big blob of AstroGlide gel lube on my right hand work it into her whole vaginal area, with special attention to her clitorus. I build up this pubic area massage gradually. I can tell when to increase the intensity, because she starts vocalizing and stops sucking as hard on my cock when she gets closer to a climax. Then I slip a finger or two in deeply and move it around to stimulate her G-spot in a rhythmic motion. I can feel with my fingers when she is about to orgasm, because the whole interior of her vag gets dilated and elongated. She forgets about servicing my stiff cock at that point and I really increase the intensity of stimulation both with my fingers inside of her and my well-lubed palm sliding around on her clitorus. Then, she moans and explodes. Soon she takes my cock back in her mouth to get it as wet as possible, because she wants something thicker and longer inside her at this point. I slide my cock into her easily, and then we begin the the long and slow process of building toward a mutual orgasm. By now my cock is twitching and her vag is thoroughly lubed and open, but we love the feeling of having me tease by repeatedly pulling out and re-entering, time after time, brushing the wet head of my cock along her clit with each re-entry. This gets me and her fully aroused. Eventually it is time for me to thrust in deeply and rotate my pelvis in a circular motion. We may go through several cycles of entry teasing and deep fucking until it's time for both of us to go for the big prize, which is the deepest and most unhinged fucking we can manage. With lube still on my right hand, I sometimes reach around her bottom and slip a finger into her anus. That always put her over the edge, and I can feel her orgasmic contractions at the same time that I am climaxing. And all that began with her sucking and with me using my hand and fingers. Foreplay is so important. It's also important for her to climax at least once before we start fucking.
I almost always finger her or otherwise play when getting sucked off. One of my friends happily takes a smallish ass toy up her bum while she's sucking me and it stays there until I finish. The other has her pussy and ass played with. Both get their tits played with as well. But they get oral from me right after they finish me off so getting them stimulated seems normal. They suck and get wet knowing that in a little while they'll be climaxing themselves on my lips and tongue so it's all good.
I prefer to eat that pussy slowly while she slowly sucks my cock. She takes breaks from sucking to enjoy my tongue and lips working that pussy as I hold her close as she orgasms right close to my mouth as I work her cum around her pussy and up around her asshole (I'm spreading those ass cheeks wide) to rim her to yet another orgasm.
This one lady I was dating would give me marathon blow jobs and when I would finger her, it drove her absolutely crazy. In those 6 years I fucked her 2-3 times, and never ate her pussy. She was like Linda Lovelace in Deep Throat, Deep throat made her come. Her mouth was her pussy!
Many decades ago, the neighbor's wife was this was. 60-minute blow jobs were her specialty as she had three or four orgasms just by sucking on my cock.
I love to finger my wife while she's blowing me. It can put me right over the edge. She loves it too, especially if I'm playing with both holes.
