Several months ago a lady I know massaged my prostate for the first time. Following this we have lost contact but I am left with a very strong urge to experience this again, despite trying repeatedly I haven't managed to find my prostate. Can anyone offer me any advice that may help?
Buy a silicone prostate plug, they are not expensive, surely that’s easier than having a hand used up sticking fingers in there. They are shaped especially to press on it, and curved to slide in easily. Just put plenty of lube on it first. You can get vibrating ones if you prefer, I tried one and for me the very fact that it vibrated is what made me NOT like it, in that the vibrations just made it want to work its way back out and it wouldn’t stay in place. I preferred the standard non vibrating one. I don’t have one currently but I’ll try one again sometime, it was a nice sensation, and like I said something you can easily pleasure yourself with hands-free.
I had a prostate exam the other day and I wrote about it. I asked the doc if I could touch it myself so as not to take up unnecessary appointment time. I was told that if I could, I'd make a fortune on the Internet because it's impossible to touch our own, ourselves. Apparently, it's above the sphincter muscle and I can only just reach that with all of my middle finger in me.
I recommend a prostate massager. I’ve been trying to have a hands free orgasm for a while now and haven’t been able to until using one. Happened within 5 mins and was incredible and now I have them all the time. I think it would help you with your urges for sure. I got one that taps and vibrates and has a remote, I recommend it a lot. Here’s a link if you want to check it out: Zero Tolerance Tap It Vibrating Prostate Massager