I finally came out to my wife i was bisexual. In reality, she walked in on me fucking myself with my dildo...
I am not bisexual, in that I could never have romantic feelings towards another man. Impossible. I could not possibly kiss or caress another male... ugh. Buuut.... like a lot of fellas getting into the 50s... there is that cock thing. Mutual masturbate with the right fella...yep I would. Or maybe oral if I was horny enough. Anyway... my wife and I have talked about that. She has had three lesbian encounters in her lifetime, one only 10 years ago. I have told her the above before, she gets it. And agrees a lot more guys probably would than will admit.
...and? What happened? I feel so unfulfilled!!! Anyway, my ex came home from work early and caught me cumming with a dildo in me while have phone sex with a guy... so theres that. So tell us all!!
My girl and I came out to each other in the first few months. Then we started to figure who sucked more dick and who ate more pussy. It was fun adding them up using our memory.
I told my wife early in our relationship. Never understood hiding it from her. Either way she’s cool with it for the most part
I told my wife earlier this year. She kinda figured it out after me and my friend went down to Virginia for the weekend. And she's 100% okay with it and supports it.
Her first clue should have been that you had a dildo that you hadn't used with her ("with my dildo" you say). She had to figure you liked sucking it or inserting it in your rectum, and you could have come out much sooner. Even if you hid your dildo, you should have figured she would find it, and recognize that it wasn't one you'd used together for her pleasure. Reminds me of the look of shock on his face when a guy finds himself in bed with someone who turns out to also have a cock. His partner for the evening says: "You should have known that; you picked me up in the Men's room at the bus station." If not your dildo, then your search history, or websites visited. She knew.
