females , who dont orgasm during sex

I had a partner who would never have an orgasm with me, took quite a long while before she decided she would in front of me - lots of discussion - but up till then insisted that she does not have orgasms, with partners and never had - although i found out she could through maserbation and then one night she decided to rub her clit while i was inside here and orgasmed. must have been at around 40 years old and had been married and quite a few partners (14ish) i think

She said the sex was great and that she did not need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex , and mainly did it for me.

just wondered how many other women found this, i would have thought it would leave feeling unsatisfying , but i guess thats the difference between men (at least me) and woman

i would find sex without an orgasm at some point unsatisfying