Females Flirting With Each Other - Like / Dislike?

A few nights ago while at a party with 2 of my co workers, they started flirting (who had been consuming alcohol most of the day) with each other & it was a turn on sexually for me. One of them revealed the others partial breast & she wasn't wearing a bra under her top - she was very busty thou & I hoped more of her breast may have been revealed.

Do you (male / female) like watching 2 women flirting with each other in public or is it a turn off.

One of them gave me a peck on the cheek but thats as far as it went. The other one tried to place my hand down into the other one's top at one stage - hoping the other thought it was her friends hand instead. They aren't gay but are very friendly at work as well. Both have male partners.

 

:bomb:

:leaving:

 

i don't much care what women say to each other. i suppose yes, if they are pulling each other's tops off in front of me then that would be a bit of a turn on. but only because of the exposed breasts, not because a couple girls decided to put on a show like a couple of freshman sorority girls.

 

Have you ever heard of sexual harassment?

 

I work with all guys, so if we were to go out and some of them started flirting with each other I think I'd get up and leave:leaving:

 

Attention whores do nothing for me! Now watching my lady with another woman and knowing I am going to be joining in is a whole other story.

 

This is the reason I avoid going to parties. I couldn`t have described it in better detail.

 

For me honestly most of the time it's kind of annoying. Because most of the time there isn't any real attraction it's just 2 sorority girls who figured out that they could get free drinks by making out. For the most part I don't find manipulative people sexy.

C/S,
Rev J

 

I flirt with women around other men just to drive the men crazy, but I totally won't act on it.

 

they just do it for attention

 

Very weak.

You`ll only drive a certain kind of guy crazy too, but I`m assuming you`re not too picky.

 

They were 2 of my co workers who had been drinking alcohol for most of the day - I arrived at the party later that night. after finishing work. One pulled the other one's top up to reveal her stomach & part of her breast - not nipples. They told me it was just for fun & for my enjoyment.
They are about 15 - 20 yrs younger than me. Alcohol was partly to blame & their flirting behaviour towards each other was a normal thing at work as well.
I left the party with a smile thou.

 

Yes. When one of them tried unsuccessfully to put my hand down the other one's top, without the other female noticing what was going on, I were not letting her & managed to pull my hand free & kept it away from her reach after that. The other one (who was facing away from us both at the time) wouldn't have known it was my hand or the others hand if it got as far as the other one was trying to place it. Unless she didn't care one way or the other. Alcohol was partly to blame for both of their actions at times. I were not alcohol effected - had only 1 small can of beer the time I was there & were driving home afterwards.
So it was not sexual harasment on my part at all. I did not leave the party but stayed for about 1 hour after that. Things flirting wise did happen between them both for most of the time - cuddling, rubbing each other's body parts, but they stayed clothed & no topless breasts were seen.

 

And here is the basic difference between men and women....

women wind men up, and somehow that's acceptable......just as leading on, mind changing and being totally unpre-fucking-dictable is apparently OK for women.

Nothing personal, calgirl, it is just that there are different standards for men and women in many regards. And imho that's wrong.

 

The next day at work, the 3 of us discussed what happened at times at the party but the actions of one of them attempting to place my hand down the others top was not mentioned. But that topic could be bought up just for a laugh & see what reactions either of us liked about it or not. Some do things out of the ordinary when drunk - I found this out years ago & have kept my distance from excess drinking since then.
So I know when to say 'no' to alcohol being offered when I know my limits.
I always want to remember the nexty day what I did do the night before & not remember anything at all. Being sober at any function is my positive thing now. At least I get to see what happens when it (alcohol) effects others & not me.

 

gee I didnt realize this was a serious thread

 

What you don`t realize is that leading men on is not ok, it`s not a joke, and it`s not cute. No matter how common it is.

What you`re doing is a little like casually saying you like to sport a swastika on your lapel and telling Jews to lighten up. It`s not treated as such, because men are just supposed to suck up every crappy attitude women put on for the sake of chivalry.

But it is just as disrespectful.

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Edit: Had your post actually been a joke, I might have laughed with you. God knows I`m able to laugh at ****** jokes and whatnot in spite of being one. The problem is that you weren`t even trying to be funny; it was just some moar of the good ol`self-entitled, dismissive attitude toward men`s sexuality.

I`m not afraid to call women out on that shit, although there are usually throngs of both men and women ready to rush to the defense of any chick who`s held responsible for her actions.

 

You're not calling me out on anything. It was a joke. and sarcasm.

 

There are other ways to get a guy's attention. I guess I could kind of understand a young girl doing this, who is still figuring her sexuality out, and the power of female sexuality.

If you are 25 and over and doing this for attention that is rather pathetic.

 

It's not for attention for gods sake. It's a joke of role playing and we're all drinking, and teasing, and making inuendoes and having general fun, and me and a friend pretend to like each other. It's in fun. I'm married, and everyone knows it. It's not a pick up method. What a bunch of uptight dudes you guys are. Glad we don't party together.