Female worker flirts with me at work >:(

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by jmt, Jun 29, 2011.

  1. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    Yet she has a bf...wtf yo!

    I dnt like this shit at all ....i feel that its a cock tease and I.dnt like it. Obviously it up to me to not react to her flirting but am not even trying........my bestfriend tells me that she might b seekin an escape plan but I doubt it.....

    How do u guy handle this?


    I prefer her not to flirt wit me but she does it non stop....even when I ignore her she continues.. >:eek:.
     
  2. Lodog

    Lodog Senior Member

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    Hell just flirt back it helps time go by faster at work. If she asks you to go out and get some drinks after work just go "nope" or do it I don't care. I love attention though, so whatever.
     
  3. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

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    Some girls are just incessant flirts.

    Usually they like the attention... Sounds weird that she's doing it when you are non-responsive

    Though, being a girl, that happens to me.

    It's totally annoying, and sometimes you have to be harsh.

    I'm going through something like this with a dude that frequents the pub I like best. He follows me like a puppy complimenting me, even though I keep telling him I'm not single and not looking for attention from men.

    If this persists I'm gonna have to ask him to back the fuck off.

    I just want to get drunk and dance by myself.
     
  4. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    She could be a tease, she could be a cheater, she could be looking for a new man, she could be a flirt, she could just be bored at work.
     
  5. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    Yeh but it brothers me. Also it goes as far as her touching me for no reason when am in the break room or when am in the operating tim she'll touch me....

    Also there times when shes stareing at me and I see her from my conner of my eyes.... It a bit weird when she stares at me while am eating.

    Ive ignore her but then she gives me this look of being upset. Btw she flirts wit me when am responsive and not reaponsive.... So I think u got it wrong when I look back and think about it
     
  6. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    Dude she has a bf and doesnt seem like shes a cheatin type but them again
     
  7. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    She could be a tease but from what my.friend at work thinks the oppisite. I doubt shes bored shes very talkative wit anyone at work. I dont knw if shes lookin for a man bcus today at work she was talking about how her bfs bday is comin up and how shes goin to be dressin sexy and all.....obviously she was just saying that but no one asked her...it was so random.
     
  8. Aponymous

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    If you see her staring at you out of the corner of your eye, believe me she sees you looking at her out of the corner of your eye.

    Know how she's interpreting that?
    That you have some level of interest in her. And we all know that's all a pigeon needs to start lookin for crumbs.

    You have full control of how this woman interacts w/ you. Be very cold and purely business w/ her. No smiles when you speak, just get tot he point and expect nothing but business from her.
    That's how I am w/ the women in my office and am known fondly as the 'ice king'.
     
  9. Aponymous

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    Another tactic is to speak w/ her about her bf.
    Heck if you wanted you could come off as gay by asking her what her bf is gonna wear.
     
  10. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    Ice king how do u bone her?

    :D
     
  11. The Earth

    The Earth Om Tare Tutare Ture Svaha

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    I know lots of girls like that, grab her ass, thats the American way.
     
  12. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    dude i dnt give a chicken's shits about her bf and what they do.

    also the other day i was in the lounge and i was sitting in this couch playing chess on my phone when she walks in and could of sat anywhere but sat next to me and then throw her whole body on to me and laid on me watching the game. She asked me sum obvious question about how to play the game...:confused: but am assuming this was just to strike conver.

    btw one of the older coworkers of mines was telling me that he knows that shes in to me but i failed to ask him how should i approach her having a BF...
     
  13. Aponymous

    Aponymous Member

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    wait, do you wanna bone her or get her to leave you alone?
     
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    gigity gigity..
     
  15. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    I dnt want all this teasing to lead to nothing. If she truly has no intensions to get serious with me then I prefer her dropping the flirting but if shes "testing" the water for a possible relationship then am DTF.


    So yes ice I want to be ripping and keeping and not ripping and running on that ass.
     
  16. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    Damn sounds simple but I dnt want her to think of me as a dirtbag but the again......:D.
     
  17. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    ... :D
     
  18. Lostthoughts

    Lostthoughts Thostloughts

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    Dude, stop pussyfooting around... Make a move on her.

    If it works, you get laid.

    If it doesn't, she stops flirting with you
     
  19. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Agree with Tuesday, if you are non responsive, its just about attention.

    Flirting with the guy when she knows it isnt going to go anywhere
     
  20. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    she is a cock tease, pure and simple.
     

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