Fantasies And Senior Senior Sexual Health

Many times senior couples are steotyped as having a sexless relationship. Just because we are no longer considered the "beautiful people" does not mean we loose the desire to have meaning sex with our partner and that includes fantasies. They are just as health for older couples as they are for the younger groups. It seems the younger group find it easier to fulfill their fantasies. My wife and I have a fantasy that is really mild. We would like to watch another older couple have sex live in front of us. We just want to sit very close to the bedside and watch and not touch. We want it to be erotic and tastefully done. We want to remain quiet,no talking, and allow the couple to explore their bodies in a sensual way. This could be done in a home or our home. The key here is sensual and erotic, not porn show.
We are not interested in swapping. We then would like the other couple to sit quietly and watch us perform for them in the same way. No filming just viewing, no touching, no talking. Chances are we will not be to able fulfill our fantasy, because we would like it to be friends. Again, no swapping, touching the other couple. We are not into web cam sex. It has to be live and not a peep show.
Senior couples what is your fantasy? What say you?

 

Oops, typo. I meant to say Fantasies and Senior Sexual Health

 

As I age I find myself questioning myself on what I enjoy in life. I even question my taste in rock music. I answered myself by saying if artists older than I can still play it... Its cool that I listen to it. When I first took up open public nudism, I questioned it. Am I too old to do this? While at a nude beach I came across a nice couple in their late 70s sitting nude. I talked with them and they reassured me it was very common at my age. I confirmed that as I started visiting nude resorts. Though my wife isn't as able as she once was sexually, I still enjoy my fantasies and watch some porn. I find watching porn that includes people my age reassures me Im as normal as anyone. Society has conditioned our minds to think in a vanilla mode. We need to assure ourselves that it doesnt have to be that way.

 

Daretobare, Well said. At 63, I too find that society has always tried to put a box over a person's free spirit and Senior people also do it to themselves. I suppose that's why it is harder to find friends with the same common sexual interest. I am also a home nudist and live a very secluded life. We have friends, but they are the vanilla kind. That you speak of. We just want quality in our sexual freedom. As I said sex is health for senior couples and so are fantasies.

 

My wife and I are in our 60's and still are sexually active. Our fantasy life is composed of recalling what we did in the past, back when we were more attractive and adventurous. My wife knows that I still love her body, but she enjoys being reminded of those times when other men actively pursued her, with some success.

 

Yes in our 60's also. We are not nearly as active as we used to be, but still enjoy sex. We talk about a friend she had, who's birthday was a day after hers, so they always got together for several years. When her birthday comes we remember , what she was doing. Hard to believe it's been so long ago.