'Faking' Orgasms

Should guys feel bad if our girls fake their orgasms?

And to the girls, do you fake your orgasms and if so, for what purpose?

I sorta find it a bit offending when you find out that your girl was faking her orgasm but her reason is noble - she's okay as long as I cum... but of course us guys want our girls to cum, too.

 

I don't fake (I don't have to really). I understand why women do it, but I'm one of the worst liars! My husband can see through me like a window.

 

I wish I could see through my girl -_-

 

Girls can easily fake it, all they have to moan and shake a little..
Alot of girls dont want their lover to feel bad, about not being able to get them off.. So they fake it.. Or they CANT get off, so they fake it.

 

I've faked before. I try not to make a habit out of it, but sometimes, the dude is working so hard and you just know that an orgasm is not in the cards, so for the sake of your partner, you fake it. But I'd never admit it to a lover, that's totally rude and hurtful.

I don't fake often at all, though, I figure I deserve my pleasure, dammit! Why fake it and miss out?

 

Well, I have always been honest with him. On a few occasions I just know it isn't going to happen, and I let him know this, and tell him he can take care of his needs but that I am just not going to get there. There have been times that he couldn't get off too believe it or not, and he says the same thing to me. That's one thing I can say about us. We can take it as long as we are honest.

 

I don't think tonight will be a problem at all.

 

Never faked, and I certainly don't plan on it. It's not a good thing to do - makes your lover believe something they're doing is orgasmic when it's really not... they'll just do it again and wonder why you didn't cum that time, or you'll continue faking and won't get any real orgasms with them and that's just silliness

 

i haven't faked in ages. i did a bit back when i was first starting to have sex, but i think that was just because we didn't ever realy know what we were doing. i'm pretty sure i wouldn't have had to if i'd known what to expect more. now if i'm not gonna cum, i just tell him or take matters into my own hands.

 

Faking is fun. I'm good at it.

 

Faking is a huge turn off for me! Like, stop having sex and go watch TV type turn off. If my partner isn't getting there, I'd like to know so I could do something different and help them out.

I don't really make getting off, for me or my partner, a very big focus- there's so much fun you can have in getting there, like if you delay the climax and keep you or your partner just under peak for a long time, or just enjoying sensations of your bodies, or what not. And if it doesn't happen for her in the natural course of things, then I can just take some time to focus completely on her and make sure that she leaves feeling fulfilled.

'Cuz I'll tell you what, if my girl isn't satisfied or the sex was somewhat one-sided, then I won't be satisfied either. It's really fulfilling to really just expend your partner and know that you're the one that did that to them. Please don't rob me of that...

 

Thanks for the input, guys.

I, too, would be better off not getting off and having my partner orgasm.

 

I don't call what I do faking because I rarely orgasm. It is just something I do, I moan and all that jazz orgasming or not.

 

i wouldnt say they SHOULD feel bad.

but you fake an orgasm cause he aint workin it right and you dont want em to feel bad.. right.

if i was a guy and i found out my girl faked it, id be embarassed

 

hmm...but you have had a few orgasms during sex? is all that moaning and stuff because you are actually really close and your partners often come before you do then?

 

i would never fake an orgasm. i will hold you down until im done

 

Yes I have had orgasms before. Sometimes I come close but it is part of my second nature to make noises period. I am a noisy girl I suppose.

 

word... I'm a noisy girl too, even if I'm not on the verge of cumming (though I think my noises tend to change when I get close like that). It just feels so good, even if it's not orgasm-good it's a different kind of good/awesome/amazing and you just gotta express that through noise sometimes

 

i thought the idea of ideal sex was for both to get off. but if you want too fake it = oh well. tough crapola.

 

I'll fake every once in awhile.

But it's only to make my man cum. Sometimes I know I am just not going to cum so I will fake and it usually works, and he finishes. I don;t make a habit out of it. But once in awhile, you gotta do what you gotta do. Men get off on the noises and pussy contractions. Why not help them out?

I'm noisy in general though.