We are a senior couple and recently met a couple 10 years younger than us. We have done a foursome with them and the sex is fantastic. Now they want to do a full day and overnight rendezvous. We are very comfortable and compatible with them. So here’s the question. As a man, how do you pace yourself for these occasions? I can have sex for a long period, no problem, but once I blow my load, I have a long recovery at my age. I will have Cialis also. What say you?
I have spent the last 2 weeks on a nude sailing trip with another couple enjoying a mix of nudism and cuckolding. The sex is frequent. Definitely only use the Cialis according to the instructions, don't overdo it. Key thing, the lady will just want you hard, she won't worry about your ability (or lack of) to orgasm. Intimacy is key I find. Admire her body, kiss, cuddle & caress her. Let your hands and mouth explore her body, let her explore your body too. Try to keep your mind off sex and focus on sensuality. So much is in the mind and not physical. Everyone is different of course, but for me this works and I can be hard again quickly and have been able to give the lady everything she has wanted when she wanted it, which has been often. Good luck.
With some couples, that was time for girl on girl. Wife was not into all women, but with some that made for great recovery time. But you should not worry, remember no pressure. She should understand.
All I can suggest is what has worked for us. Same room for all four of you. Watch each other. Take turns. Take beaks. Swap back and forth. That one really seems to keep the blood pumping. Set out a chilled fruit and drink bar ahead of time. Program some good music.
Update: We had the extended playtime with the other couple. It turned out fantastic. I keep it short. We started out in our hotel room king size bed and swapped. This was a long session of switching positions and watching each other. Surprisingly, I had no stamina problems and never came. My wife had a great time with him and busted a nut in her. I felt really good and had no performance issues. His wife took everything I gave her. My wife and the other man tapped out and watched us until she tapped out. We dress and got a light meal and headed to the pool, then we all went to their motor house where everything started again. We had a very late night session on their king bed. I finally nutted in her as he held his wife’s hand. Yes, a great was had by all.
That is for sure they key to extended times with in sexually charged atmosphere. Enjoy the journey, leave the extra help for when you absolutely know you need it, you will surprise yourself in how much you didn't need it in the small moments. The midday quickies and the fun touching may not call for you to be ready to go all night.
My wife and I often have long weekends with like minded couples, its not hard to keep up and play for long periods when you can take breaks and relax. try edging as I do, fuck until you want to blow and stop, get down and eat her out, maybe suck the others dick as I do. But sometimes you just gotta let it go,
My wife and I have had a couple we share sexual moments with and what has worked for us is to just pace ourselves. They have a pool, so it makes it easy to lounge, browse, and play if you wish as well as relax to recover for more activity later. We never rush things with the wives, but he and I do suck each other's cock's numerous times throughout the day knowing we're unable to cum yet but it's the constant attention he and I provide each other's cocks that makes that next orgasm even more intense. We keep each other on the edge and when we are ready, we change our focus onto the wives, so we all experience the most enjoyable, pleasurable moments throughout the day. Many times, we start the next day with a foursome having had a good night's sleep to enjoy a great breakfast together.