ex boyfriend won't leave me alone

well fuck!! my ex boyfriend (alex) keeps on phoning my house and asking my mom questions like if i have a boyfriend and if i'm over him and shit... keeps asking all these personal questions.. and keeps calling non-stop!!! i mean fuck! we broke up in march I am completely over him and he's being so annoying... My mom tells me he keeps phoning.. i told her i was going to be dating dan (this guy i'll be dating once i gte back home, i'm at my uants right now) when i get back So she is just going to tell alex i have a boyfriend so he could stop phoning and move on

it's pissing me off... he won't get the hint.. I have told him many times to leave me alone and i have told him many times that i'm over him... and uug he is just sooo jelious too and everything (that's one reason why i broke up with him) and uuuggg!! why can't he fucking leave me alone... I mean I have moved on,,, and yes it's creepy having him phoning my house like crazy

 

you can block his number from your line...and get a restraning order so if he does contact you from another number he's slapped with a citation...sometimes you have to be tough with some people.

 

As much as others may disagree with me, perphaps his feelings should be taken into account as well.

Maybe he still really loves you, and if thats the case you have to atleast be honest with him, talk to him for a bit, and tell him how you feel.

Dont be mean or impatient, let him talk to you so all the unfinished business can be worked out.




I'm not justifying his actions, I'm merely saying these could be the signs of a hurt person crying out, and if thats the case he could hurt himself or others. Just give him some time , some attention, and some honesty and perphaps everything will work out, and he will accept reality.

 

I have seriously Tried to be patient with him.. many many times.. and he started stalking all my friends as well... I dunno if he would hurt himself... He's very desperate though I'm not kidding. I mean he went out with me because he was desperate.... because he dated this other girl because he was desperate and right when he broke up like the next day he went out with me...

 

This guy sounds like he needs some serious help.

 

yes he does!!! hahaha...

 

I know desperation. Any remotely cute girl's eyes pass over me and I think "holy shit, maybe I have a chance". I look around me and everyone has a girlfriend/boyfriend, but I don't, and have never had a girlfriend except a girl who randomly asked me out at a dance in 7th grade. It was over within two weeks because I have horrible social anxiety and never talked to her, I was too afraid to. Fuck, I never acknowleged her in the hallway. So i've been single my entire life basically. So many times I have convinced myself that "this is it, something will happen with this girl". It never has. Since I got a job I've been a little less shy, but I still get really nervous around girls. I never initiate conversation with a girl, and if one talks to me, I usually sound like I have the intellect of a gorilla. I'm 18 now, and everyone else has been through many partners, and they all seem to take relationships in general for granted. Here I am, still alone, and I can see why somebody might have trouble letting go of a partner.

I'm not saying what he's doing is right. He definitely needs to stop, but have some pity on the man for christ's sake, instead of treating hime like an annoying mosquito.

 

I can too. After being with my ex for 3 years, and then all of a sudden she got weird on me (probably cheated on me) and broke it off.....it was so far the hardest thing in my life to let go.



I had to.....I did....but i still think of her every single morning, and every night, and about 20 times in between.