My wife and I have had discussions lately since my recent engagement with Tom the other day. He and I have been "Suck-Buds" for 12 years now but the other day we engaged ourselves into a more passionate level while showering before our regular oral exchanges. I even whispered "I Love You" in his ear which I've never done with any man. I think my days of being bisexual have evolved into more of a gay relationship with him. I've always had more sex with him versus my wife or his wife. I still enjoy sex with both of our wives, but I am feeling I reached a point where I desire him more than either of our wives. I don't see this as a bad thing, and my wife whom I love dearly has stated she understands why I would feel this way. Has this happened to others out here?