Evolving attitude towards desire for her nudity

When we married decades ago. I thought it was great that she was a virgin since I was also. I tried most things sort of intercourse with other girls….but not the one that was to become my wife. She wouldn’t even allow boobs to be fondled.

Sex for many years lacked the frequency or variety I needed. There were years where it happened once per month. Between work, kids and some prudish attitudes my wife had (has?) towards sex….my sex life left a lot to desire.

As a result, I turned to porn (written and video) and JO daily. I remember getting aroused by stories and videos of women getting naked on beaches. But I thought “I would never want others to see wife’s tits and DEFINITELY not that pussy that I waited so long to see! That view is for me alone. Why would husbands allow others to see their wife’s most intimate parts of her body?”

After more years passed, my attitude changed. I started to fantasize about her being naked with the possiblity of her being seen. Then it progressed to us actually going to some nude beaches and one club. I don’t think I fully understand it, but my wife’s naked body being viewed by nude men is now extremely erotic for me. I can hardly wait for the next time her body….especially her pussy is exposed for men to see.

I believe the official term is candaulism.

Has anyone else experienced a change in attitude like mine?
Any ideas as to how this change takes places?
Any stories/experiences you can relay?

 

I wanted other men to not only see my wife naked, but also fuck her. I got my wish when we were both in our late 20s. I had several men (a couple friends and several complete strangers) see her naked, and had one friend fuck her frequently for over half a year! It was everything that I'd hoped for. Whats more, once my friend started fucking her on a regular basis, she really got into it and couldn't wait for the next time she'd feel him cumming in her!

 

For my wife and I, Full home nudity started after we retired. Then we progressed to (Lifestyle) resorts. Best thing we have ever done for ourselves. My wife is a very confident woman and loves being nude and is usually the first one undressed when we are with friends Doesn’t bother me at all that our life style friends touch and play with her. We are long past being jealous. We have one couple that we see about once a month for some nude hot tub fun and bedroom play. We certainly for evolved in a good way.

 

Yes I feel same way

 

I'm not sure how this change takes place but for us, it just evolved over the years. I didn't know for many years that my husband wanted to show me off and see me with other men until he finally told me. I think it's something that happens when there is a lot of trust.

 

Can we start a private conversation?

 

Yes

 

I don’t know how to do it.

 

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If anyone wants to show me pics, I’d be ok with that

 

Yes

 

I'm a nudist/naturist. My spouse? Not so much. There are rare times she might join me. Otherwise she always has some clothing of some sort on. I never really cared if she was seen nude by anyone, male or female. Never cared if she had sex with other men either. She did a few times in our marriage. It didn't bother me and I didn't get off on it. But back to candaulism, she expressed that at one time she liked me being nude with the chance of being seen publicly. That fetish has faded from her mind though. I have been seen a few times and we have had sex in public too. Never had any issues except once when a male Karen called the police and had a fit over my nature walk while nude.