Essie Reis - Guys or Girls, so much choice

So often I'm faced with the social pressure to say if I am lesbian, bisexual, or straight. Why can't I be all of them? Why do I even need a label to identify myself? I think we all need to come out, accept ourselves in a healthy way without necessarily having to use a label. Although I know that in the past labels have been useful to help identify a particular group and in that way bring them visibility.

Any opinions on this? To be or not to be labelled? What is your choice?

Essie Reis

 

because some of them directly contradict each other.

it's like asking "why can't i be both all of them and none of them."