Erection Problems...need help

My girlfriend & I have been going out for 2 weeks now. She's my first one & I am inexperienced at the whole relationship thang. although the biggest problem has come from my constant erections, I'm not talking about little erections. Oh no, I'm talking about full on erections, the ones where my dick sticks out in my pants. It only happens when we do somthing sexual/romantic, sometimes even holding hands or thinking about her sets me off. I've tired to distract myself from it & I wear baggy clothes to hide it. But it only stops when the romantic/sexual situation stops. Its becoming really awkward, just last week I had to pull away from kissing my girl because my erection was imparing my ability to move properly. Is this normal? Am I like fucked up somehow? Is there someway to help me with this? Any advice would be appreciated.

 

tie that shit to your leg...

 

rasprophecy, that was hilarious, lol.

Even so, truely, I would go the route that CorpFreak said. Tieing it to your leg may cause a rash.

 

i had that problem, one day it'll take more then touching her hand to get it up, thats when the blowjobs start

 

Yeah, yeah, laugh it up. I don't think I can tell her, Its just very embarrassing, I think she'd laugh at me.

 

In all honesty, try to tell her. Try telling her how you feel man, tell her how she makes you feel. I can bet it is embarrassing, but you have to get a hold on it. If you don't one of your friends might see you popping a tent while standing beside her. If so, that would probably be the end of it. I hope not, but it could happen.

 

just masterbate until you can't get hard anymore, then your problem's solved.


don't worry about it too much either way, you'll grow out of that in another year or 2

 

Many women would be flattered by the fact that you are so turned on by them. However, it does have a time and a place. In otherwords do what you can to avoid popping a boner while she is crying! lol Margret Thatcher naked on a cold day! Your erection is all in your head, get your mind out of the gutter and problem solved! hahaha

Honestly, I find that frequent masterbation will teach you self control. Practice tantric techniques such as stop and, you will find that you have much more control over your little friend there.

Also, if you are wearing boxers, switch to boxer briefs. Women still find them sexy usually but they provide that extra added erectile protection! I usually go commando, but I find that I need to wear underwear when Im dancing. Grinding > Me. lol

 

tighter underwear and baggy pants help........
the man show recommended propping it up between your stomach and pants.....
masterbating can help, but it'll make you tired-and not as much fun to be around.....
the truth is, it goes away when you become more accustomed to the reality of having a girlfriend. enjoy it while it's new, man. who cares if ya got a boner? that's what's great about bein' a guy! if she notices it, just smirk and act like it doesn't embarass you. maybe even make a joke about it. if she can't handle the idea of you gettin' a boner when the two of you are doing sexual/romantic stuff, i don't really know what to tell ya. just don't worry about, man. it's fuckin' natural.

 

Rofl!!! That was hilarious!

Try wearing some really tight underpants (Age 8-9) so it seems less prominent.

 

Its not that I'm thinking about doing sexual things with her, it just comes automatically.


I don't want to wank to much as it hurts my cock, Wearing tight underpants? Tieing it to my leg!? Owww... My dick isn't made of steel you know! That hurts!

I think the controlled masturbated sounds like a good idea (although so far its only made it more sensative). Its also good to know its natural. I think I'm comfortable enough to tell her now, I'll try to sometime this week... wish me luck.

Cheers for the help anywayz.

 

When you tell her make sure its in a confident way like "damn girl...look what you do to me" and not nervous like "um, I keep um getting an errr erection" What girl doesn't like to know that she makes her man hard....hell I am in my 30's and it still works on me. Be confident because what you are going through is completely normal, and you have no reason to feel bad about it.

Maybe she'll even say "let me take care of that for you"

 

Yes It Is Normal For A Guy Your Age To Have A "Hair Trigger"....Wear A "Budgie Smuggler" To Hold The Boy Down....Enjoy It,... Even If "Embarrassment" Is Your Middle Name!!!....I Can Only Dream Of That Short A Response Time.....(Cries Openly).......Cheers Glen.

 

Well, if she laughs at your boner and doesn't reach down to gobble that knob soon after, then you oughta find yourself a new woman.

Boners rule. And it happens to pretty much every guy between the ages of 15-19.

 

So have you made any progress?? lol Im telling you, tatra will work wonders for your self control.

And, damn it toolmaggot, why are there not more women like that around here?

 

Not only normal, you are lucky.
"We were doubly blessed. We were barely 17 and we were barely dressed."
Meatloaf.

Baggy pants help modesty. Wearing briefs instead of boxers helps as they restrict movement so you can plot penis trajectory. Mid length briefs are most comfortable.

Enjoy your good luck. Just do not get her pregnant. There are many places to cum other than your pants or her crack.

 

Ok, although I agree that masterbating can help get rid of constant erection, I dont think it will take a year or two. Once you guys get sexually active, it is true that you will need more than just holding hands to get erect. I have been dating my girl for a year now, and we have sex and do everything else, but sometimes I find if it has been awhile since we have done anything, that little tiny romatic or petty touching can get me hard. Don't worry about it its natural. Tell her about it. I know its embarassing, but come on your 17 and in a relationship, if she cant expect or accept some of these things, obviously she is immature. Go for it.

 

YOW BRO.. THAT SHIT IS NORMAL.. THOSE IDIOTS THAT TRYING TO HELP ARE FAGS.. DONT LISTEN TO THEM.. ITS A GOOD THING THAT YOURGIRL MAKES YOU FEEL THAT WAY.. IT HAPPENS TO ME NOW AND THEN AND WHAT I DO IS PUT HER HAND ON IT SO SHE GETS TURNED ON TOO, OR I JUST BRACE IT ON HER SO SHE KNOWS IWANT PUSSY.. TRUST ME DUDE ITS VERY NORMAL

 

The best way to take care of your erection is to stick it in your girlfriends pussy until you both cum. Do that as many times a day as needed

 

agreed.