I'm a straight acting bi married man aged 60. Are there any others out there? I'm straight acting and do not cross dress but like alpha men who want me to be sexually feminine to satisfy their needs. Not an easy subject to discuss as its not exactly a manly thing to admit so anyone who understands and wishes to chat would be welcome
I'm a straight acting bi married man aged 65. I don't give much thought to masculinity or "acting straight", athough admittedly I suck at traditional male sex-role stereotypes (U.S.A.); I don't watch football, NASCAR, wrestling, Fox News, I don't objectify and denigrate women, LGBTQ, immigrants, Democrats, and Colored folk, and I don't carry a gun. My mate says I'm feminine because I'm receptive (I swallow) and I do "women's work"; laundry, dishes, housekeeping (at least, more often than she does). I don't think it was meant as a compliment. For me to be upset at being called 'feminine' or 'Gay', I would have to presuppose that women or Gay men are in some way inferior to me. They're not.
Yep, 60 and unsure how to label myself. I don’t find men sexually attractive in the slightest but my girlfriend of 4 years is the first to willingly fulfil my cuckold (or hotwife) fantasies and often has sex with her ex. Surprisingly I get more turned on seeing his beautiful erection than I do anything else. I also love cleaning up. In fact I crave taking it in my mouth directly but I don’t think he’d be up for that. As I don’t find men attractive (apart from one part) I don’t know if the word bi applies!
@Piobaire - I reckon your mate needs to come out of the 20th century. Whilst he maintains his view, I think you'd be entitled to call him misogynist. @adman: I think you shouldn't get overly hung up on labelling yourself. To do so is all about putting people in 'their place', it's not always about knowing or understanding them. Labelling oneself is capitulation, imv. Im in a sexless relationship and apart from a friend 10yrs ago, who was equally frustrated and suggested we 'sort each other out' , sex has been absent for 17yrs. (She was so open sexually as we discussed it, and willing to do everything i asked, that i couldnt resist connecting on a cerebral level as well as gorging on the sight of her lovely body. She asked and persuaded me to have a 3sum with a guy coz she wanted to watch guys wanking together, each other and to take two guys cum in the same mouthful. Cumkissing too, from one or other guy to her. That made the idea agreeable. With a woman asking me to do it for her it was just something to do for her, to enable her / help her, to have an experience she craved. It never happened though. We hadn't found a guy before we had to stop playing. She fell for me (only god knows why) and it took a while to extricate ourselves. Sadly, her way to do that was to put me into her "he's dead to me" pigeon-hole. Even now, a month back, we stumbled on each other in the supermarket and she saw me, was poker-faced, stumbled and 'ahemmed' and carried on, to wherever. Even ensuring she saw me again resulted in null connection. Sad, really but hey-ho. But now; on my sexual own, so I masturbate more than my previous normal. I deliberately get hard so other females can notice it through my thin-material trousers (no undewear), in the hope that one may respond. I also watch porn though now only to help get me over the last bit towards cumming. I enjoy watching guys wanking. Not just porn but swapping videos. Im readying myself for more live camming on skype which has been good just recently. So interesting to just chat with a guy as we both stroke and then, to see him need to get into wanking and spurting. And then I do it. Funny thing is, just after he's cum or just after I've started, (I expect it's coz he's just cum), there's an instant/sudden technical disconnect, such that there's nobody watching me. He's gone. Happened on both occasions. However, I love the sounds a guy makes as he works his way up to spurting. I love the sight of a guys cock pumping. I really do want to touch, massage and wank one. At least one. I hope I will suck even though i can't visualize my doing that. It's just the same stuff she asked me to do but, without her being there. Practicing for another such possibility (of a 3sum). It's just another sexual experience for me, if that means some pigeon-hole me, that's a matter for them. I'll enjoy life and experiences whilst they stagnate in their own delusional judgement. If I do find a woman and if we have sex, that urge to wank a guy will diminish. It did so that last time, 10yrs ago - though - if a guy asks me to wank him, at that time when i dont 'need' to (coz im getting sex), I would wank him - if I like his cock. For me, it's only about the cock/cumming. Mutually, if at all. If all that means to some people, that I'm bi, then that's on them. I am just myself, straight but frustrated and will take human touch over self gratification any day.
Im with you on most of the stuff mentioned . I thought I was turning into a Felix Unger which is a good thing for a senior. Im hitting 74 and wish I could have fun with my wife or almost every woman I know. Aint Happenin! My old best friend is in the same situation, my Wife is done with sex and thinks that bi activity with my friend and others is OK. No jealousies, get it out of my system and go home with a smile on my face and a great attitude towards life. Friends wife feels the same. Not that there are women out there looking for an old dude to have sex with, but other women are Off Base. my wife calls them black widows.
im straight acting took me ages to suck my first coc just love doing it just a shame that most people to far away from me
