Ejaculation without a full erection, possibly phsychological?

Okay, so let me start off with my age, I'm 22, a bit overweight. So I had an encounter with a hooker, and I usually dont do things like this because I dont feel comfortable and I feel anxious and nervous for many reasons ( I get talked into by some of my friends that frequentty use their services ). So every time we get into it, she usually gives me head, even without an errection I get close to Cumming and if I dont stop her I come, I also have hard time getting it up with a hooker. Never had this problem with my girlfriends. I also get regular morning wood and get errections regularly, just like a normal 22 year old guys would. So I get very confused when this happens. Is it possible to have a hard time getting it up if ur uncomfy or nervous? Or ejaculate without a hard on?

 

Erection, Ejaculation, Orgasm are three different things.

Most often they are all combined at some point.

However, all of them can be de-coupled due to anxiety, physical health, medicines/drugs.

(I read JAMA, NEJM, Lancet for my studies)

 

ejaculation without an erection is something most guys have done at sometime in there life. I have masturbated while being very tired or even while being drunk and been able to cum while soft or a semi at best. Most of my friends have admitted they have done the same. Im sure its not uncommon

 

Sure, it’s not at all unusual to have an ejaculation without having a full-on erection; I don’t know that you could have one while totally soft, but if there is some arousal, it can happen. (I speak from experience.) Also, the reason for the semi-erection with the prostitute is probably due to discomfort you feel with her – not physical, but emotional or psychological. That can play a big part in erectile issues. (Of course, remember you are under no obligation to go to a prostitute and also under no obligation to feel you have to get a raging erection if you do). On a different note, be sure you are using adequate protection, and also keep an eye on your general penis health. Using a quality penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can help with general penis health. A cream with vitamin A is especially good, as it can help cut down on unwanted penis odor.

 

Yeah that BS about your friends pushing you towards getting a hooker, yeah right...
Second as the issue goes it makes sense that you may be nervous or anxious and even with some woman sucking you Johnson you can still cum without being hard I guess. 3rd give up the hooker man & go get yourself a real gf, hit the gym if you have to to drop some pounds.

Paying for sex is kind of empty isn't it? I can't imagine its like some porn experience is it? Plus you're just itching to catch something (yes pun intended)