I've recently started trying edging as I hear the ending orgasm can be much stronger and you have a larger load. When I get close to orgasm, I can never seem to stop at the right moment before I cum, and I always end up ejaculating. When exactly should I stop stimulation and how can I feel when?
^ yeah basically. You're going too far if you can't stop yourself. Try and stop jussssst before. That's what the whole point of edging is, to train yourself to see the thousand steps it takes to orgasm as one step at a time, to make it more controllable.
It's true that it feels better and there's more semen when you edge. Try stopping "way too early" the first time, rest for a minute, and go back to it. Every time you do it keep getting closer and closer to the orgasm. After you've done it a few times you'll know when to stop. Also, just keep in mind that thing get more intense as you edge so you might end up going off earlier than you'd like the first few times.
The only solution is practice. You have to become totally familiar with yourself. Once you master edging, you can move on to trying The Dribbler. This means that you stop as soon as you feel the semen beginning to rise, but just before the orgasm kicks it, giving it the force. This means that without the power of the orgasm behind it, the semen just dribbles out, but it also means that because you haven't yet reached orgasm you remain erect & capable of repeating the session as many times as you can manage before you eventually find you have to yield to the ultimate climax - by which time may even be dry, as each successive controlled ejaculation releases less & less semen, but the orgasm itself is mind blowing.
Excellent advice PineMan! I'm not an expert, but I can dribble twice before cumming a couple hours later. My best was three days before a mind wrenching orgasm but haven't been able to do that for a couple years. Takes knowlege and knowing yourself to put off an orgasm, especially in a woman.
