ED and don't feel like masturbating anymore

Hi there,

I really need your help and some advice. Let me explain my situation. I'm a guy, 23 years old. I have been in a relationships for almost 4 years. And it was actually really great but then I realised I didn't like her anymore as a girlfriend but only as a friend. I didnt wan't to Kiss, cuddle or have sex with her anymore. So i broke up with her. After I broke up the first couple of weeks/months it was pretty hard for me and I was not sure if I made the right decision. I missed her, but I didnt know if I missed her or Just having a girlfriend.

During these months I realised I didnt got a boner alot and didn't feel to masturbate at all. And now this is still going on. I'm now completely over her and now I know for sure I made the right decision to break up with her. (it is now almost 6 months ago since the breakup). Right now i started dating a girl and I really like her. The only problem is we didn't had sex yet because I'm really holding back because of the ED. I'm really more into kissing and cuddling and not going further because of this. While doing this I do keep thinking alot about this, but I don't knoe what to do to stop this.

Before I met her I didnt really realised I had these problems but now thinking back of the last few months I realise I had trouble getting and maintaining a boner and I dont feel like masturbating at all. For example, before I had sex/masturbate like 2-4 times a week. Right now there are periodes I don't masturbate for like 2 weeks. And the only reasons why I'm doing it now is not because I feel like doing it but because it feels like I have to do it and just see if I can get a boner (during masturbating it is also harder to get it hard).

I really like this girl but I feel a bit of ashamed because of this. Sometimes I think, perhaps I do have to masturbate every (other) day to 'train' my penis to get hard but this is probably nonsense.

 

For your age, ED could be caused by prescripiton drugs you might be taking. If it's ADHD medications, that might be causing it.

Masturbating every day won't help you get hard. Because your body will form a habit of getting hard ONLY via solo sex. If you masturbate too frequently while looking at porn, it could make your ED problem worse.

 

I'm not using any drugs that could cause this. And I never masturbated a lot. But the problem is I really dont feel like masturbating anymore. So I think you can state that I have a low libido right now

 

What if its just normal for you?

What if compared to all other 23 yr old males you just ended up in that bottom few % and thats the way its supposed to be?

Libido wise that is

 

Talk to your doctor about having your testestrone levels checked

 

Well I never had this before. Before everything was fine according to having sex, masturbating and getting an erection.

 

I say don't worry about it.
Give your girl massages and oral sex and just relax about it for a while and see if that helps.
I'd say tell her how you're feeling about it, but you might not feel comfortable doing that..
It probably is just a phase, and if it's not you can worry about it later.
Nothing to worry about for now.

 

Agree that you should see a doctor

If that doesn't help, I'd recommend trying acupuncture or traditional Chinese herbal medicine. I can say more about this if you are interested

 

Try eating some oily fish and stop consuming most vegetable oils. Also eat some apples

 

If you can't get it hard without masturbating, you have ED, in which you've already stated.
we all have our reasons for jerking it.

 

My reason for jerking it is because my BBC gets trapped in my trousers and needs to be massaged.

 

LMAOOO

 

I thought you are female.

 

She is...but her mind has no limits!

 

Different women to your normal one? could be the reason as you have a women but your brain is not interested, I think the answer is to get naked with her and see what happens then, surprising what a naked women will do for you.

I think getting naked in warm room will do you the power of good, mind you its best with a women and some wine, get relaxed, breath in her female sent, its a real tune on to the male nose get some body oil that smells good and let her anoint your body with them and do the same to her, this should turn you on and get you hard, and just take it from there.

 

Would sure do a hell of a lot with me, seeing as i'm a virgin.

 

She's trolling lmao.

 

Could be a thyroid problem, I had a thyroid surgery at 40 and my libido went down. I started to controlled the symptoms with synthroid and started taking Maca 500 mg and Tribulus 500 mg and I came back to the business , like in my early days. But you have to be sure you find the highest concentrations, more is better. I always i'm able to find
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Well its time to get in the game.