Ok here are a few more quesions, this time it's sex advice ! Whats like the best posistion for a girl to be eaten out from and fingered from...It seems like girls like i from behind...Like they lay on their stomachs, and I massouche the leg and make it up to the pussy and finger and lick it there...Am I just imaging that this is a good posistion or what...What are some good posistions to do shit to the girl??? Secondly...What are some fingering techniqes...I just like to tease tease and then stick it in deep and rotate my finger in circles...And when after about 10 min of teasing, I stick one finger in and rub the clit(kind of hard) with my thumb....Good or bad here???? Thirdly...What are some eating out techniques...I dont no many lol I only did it once and I just licked it and licked it and licked it...Lol LASTLY!! THIS ONE IS BIG....!!!!!!!! How do I know if I made a girl orgasm, and if i didnt make the girl orgasm, doesn that mean i suck at fingering or licking or whatever the hell u wanna say?
Wow... to answer these all with one response... Every girl is different. The key is to let her guide you in what she likes. Listen to how she responds to different positions/techniques and react accordingly. How good you are has a lot to do with how she communicates to you what she likes, and how you pay attention and give her what she wants. Personally, I like the 69, and having her legs off a bed and me on the floor because I am looking right at her... ok, that's enough detail... Sorry if I have sickened anyone... film at eleven.
pay attention to her wants and needs. how does she react to the things you do to her? also, above all listen to her. communication is key to both of you.
I so thought you meant an actual meal... you know, how to finger while your having a three course chinese dinner
When she breathes harder and tenses up (some moan louder but some don't make much noise at all), stick your finger in her. You should be able to feel her pussy tighten up if she's cumming or "aftershocks" when she's coming down. Some girls can do this really well at will (thus fake an orgasm). But if she faked, she's not going to get much wetter. Most girls that cum get a lot more wet right after their orgasm.
2) i like it when the fingers are in and they move back in forth quickly and forcefully 4) if she doesn't cum it doesn't mean you aren't doing it well...some girls are just harder to manipulate that way and have difficulty w/o clit stimulation
Yeah. I'm one of em. I'm convinced that's the reason why I only get off when I'm on top.. cause I can feel my clit grinding into the guys pubic mound while riding him so it provides that stimulation.
My girl likes it when I suck on her clit and flip it with my tongue, and at the same time, with two fingers, stroke her g spot. Don't be afraid to lick her ass hole every now and then. most women love the ticklish sensation of a tongue on their ass hole. The clit is where it is at for making her climax. she will back away from you and close her legs after she cums and can't take anymore. Try that. It works like a charm
I can’t say what’s really best, but I can tell you what has worked well for me. My first wife just loved to sit right on top of my face with her pussy on my mouth. I would lick and suck while she just moved back and forth, I wouldn’t have to move my head at all, just my tongue and lips, she’d just move around so I’d be licking in different places at different times. When she was getting close to coming, she’d just go wild and move so I’d be licking her clit then slide up so I’d be licking her ass. Back and forth. I really like that position myself because it’s comfortable and I don’t have to do anything except lick, suck, and eat out. But for some reason, my current wife doesn’t care for that position. Besides, she really likes to be fingered while I eat her out, and it’s hard to do that in the face sitting position. So with her, she’s usually on her back while I go down in a head down position between her open legs, using the fingers of one hand moving around inside her while I lick and suck her clit. With the other hand I feel up her breasts and gently rub her nipples. She loves it. I always start with the fingers before eating her out. And I always start very gently and subtly near the back of her pussy. I start by just gently running my finger along the outer lips then gradually let it go inside. I gradually put it deeper and move it around, while pulling it completely out and putting it back every so often. By that time, she’s usually starting to get pretty wet. I don’t touch her clit until she is very wet, so when I do, it usually starts making her twitch and moan a little. On her clit I move my finger all around it at first, and occasionally move it away from it a few seconds, then go back to it. Before long I get a little stronger on it, while pushing the hood covering her clit back so it’s more fully exposed for my finger. When she’s almost ready to cum, I go down on her with my mouth and make it happen for her. Just lick everywhere in the pussy at first, but always make the clit the main place to lick and suck. I think if you get her pussy ready first, like I described before, she’ll be almost begging for your mouth on it. When she’s about to cum, pretty much stay on the clit and take cues from her movements and sounds she makes. But even though she may be going wild and jerking around a lot, just keep your licking and sucking steady and DON’T STOP unless or until she wants you to because she’s cum and can’t take it any more. Well, not all women are the same, but generally I’d say – and based on my own experience – when she has an orgasm, she’ll get extremely wet (it tastes so good!), will quiver and jerk and her moaning will turn into screams. Then, her clit and pussy become kind of sensitive and she will want you to stop licking or whatever you’re doing. She may actually have some mini-orgasms before that, in which case you she may not want you to stop so that she can have more, and eventually the big one. And sometimes, unfortunately, it just doesn’t happen at all. If it doesn’t happen, it may or may not be your fault. So don’t worry about it. If you think it may have been something you weren’t doing right, just ask her later. Sometimes an orgasm is just a lost cause, and don’t feel bad about it. But from what I’ve been told by my wife and other women, even if they don’t have one, they still get a lot of pleasure out of the sex. Not quite like a guy, where if, for whatever reason – too much to drink or whatever – we don’t come, we feel horrible about it. I don’t think most women are that way.
Like someone previously said, every woman is different. And seriously, we so are. You need to find out what pleases her. If she's comfortable, let her masturbate in front of you and fixate yourself on what she's doing, how she pleases herself. Or let her guide you around her pussy -- let her give you a tour by taking your hand and rubbing herself and fingering herself with total control over you. Some girls love to be fingered, some don't, some girls don't even like to be eaten out or have their clit licked and sucked, find out what she likes and then try all the tricks you guys talk about.
