I was just guaranteeing a cunnilingulus-shy guy that it's easier to go down on a woman than a man. I personally find it difficult and uncomfortable to have a dick in my mouth after a while (and there's especially the gagging issue), and I also find cum to taste gross. I don't find it as hard to use my tongue for a long time (although it can get tired!), and the girls I've been with tasted actively good. I'm putting aside my personal preferences here - personally, I prefer boys, and I prefer giving head to boys. I'm trying to be completely objective. So...I'm curious about what other people think! As objectively as you can, is it easier to go down on a man or a woman? (Ahem: you people who have not experienced both but nonetheless have an opinion about this...this is not the thread for you.)
I think it's very subjective. Personally, I find it easier to suck cock because I know what works and I'm very familiar with the territory. Cunnilingus is fun, don't get me wrong, but it's a completely different world. Perhaps it was because I didn't really know what I was doing, but man alive could it get tedious, and my tongue would be so tired. Still, so long as she enjoyed it, I was happy to oblige.
Personally, I think it's much easier to for a guy to have an orgasm from head than it is for a woman. That said, it's easier to give a bad blowjob than bad cunnilingus. Even if a guy doesn't know what he's doing, it's hard to make oral unpleasant for a woman. I've never received bad oral. Yeah, I never orgasm from it, but it still feels nice. There's more pressure to get a woman off, but you don't have to worry about it being unpleasant. Now with guys, you can give him an orgasm even if you aren't all that great, but it's SO easy to make it unpleasant. Teeth, scraping, bad rhythm, etc.
*doesn't have a gag reflex* I like having my face fucked, it gets me sooo hot... But, I also love going down on my partner; taking in hys scent and enjoying every bit of hys juices... What's easier? Going down on a woman, IMO; maybe me and my partner should invest in a softer strap...
i think it's easier to go down on a woman, but probably because it's what i'm most comfortable with. i'm terrified of doing something hurtful to that big ole' cock... and my mouth gets SOOOOO tired of being held open. and the breathing rhythm.... difficult to master. plus with a woman it's pretty easy to get her off by licking clit and fingering. the combinations available for very stimulating cunnilingus are... well... stimulating... while there seems to be mostly one way to suck a cock. up and down, up and down, up and down.... i just get bored.
So I think it's 3 to 1 in favor of "Going down on a woman is easier" and I can't exactly tell what Narco's vote was. lol
Well it depends what you're asking. Are you talking about how easy the actual act of giving is, or how easy it is to give the person an orgasm? The actual giving process of cunnilungus is easier (don't get as tired), but I think it takes a lot less skill to make a man orgasm, even though it is tiring and can make you gag.
bjs are easier but it may jus tbe because its familiar territory for me lol ive given cunninlingus once and it was tricky getting her to cum
I enjoy going down a a women alot more that sucking cock. I love the taste and feel of a women much more than the feel of a cock in my mouth...
