Lately I’ve been craving to suck a cock and get fucked...only problem is I’m married and she isn’t into it. I’m sure I’m not the only one in this position. How do you deal with it?
Find someone who is into it and don't tell her. I don't necessarily condone cheating but if it's something you crave and the other won't give it then you can either be miserable or get your fix
I wouldn't advise you to violate any commitments to your spouse but your craving may grow stronger leading you in that direction as it did with me in my first marriage. I followed through with my desires and frequented them often for many years. The marriage ended but not because of this but the desires and cravings were satisfied and now in my present marriage my wife accepts and understands my bisexual cravings as we have a friend we play with together on a monthly basis.
Tell your wife that it’s something that you need to do and then you can both decide from there. It’s not fair to leave her in the dark.
Just for everyone’s knowledge, i told her on our first date. I wanted to be honest from the start. She will play with the strap on once in a blue moon, and is ok with us having a threesome....but she absolutely doesn’t want to see me with a dude.
I’ve told my wife about wanting to revisit my high school memories (ie my bi experiences) during sex. She’s ok with it then but not so much afterwards. I’d love to find someone on the side and slowly introduce him to wife.
I can always tell when a woman is dieing for it, when my cock is being sucked my shaft is getting them excited and their pussy is wet.I now feel a sense of achievement because I have not fucked her yet but she is ready.I usually wait a few minutes just to tease,and then I start.I was given some lessons from a older woman about this my wife loves this
Talk to her about it and if shes not willing to satisfy you the way you would like to be satisfied then she cant be mad if you go looking for it elsewhere.
I started my exploration with life-like dongs, sucking on it while jerking off. I got lots of practice before sucking a real cock and it paid off in the end. Ask her if getting one of these is something she'd be open too, she can hold it between her legs while you suck on it.
Yes, she’s been ok with dildo play, we have lots of toys, but she won’t play with them WITH me unless she is drunk. We drink a lot but a lot of times she will drink to excess to where she’s too drunk to play. I have played with the toys on my own, and it has been satisfying at times. I agree it made me decent at sucking a real cock. The last time I blew a guy he asked me to stop cause he didn’t want to cum too fast...and then he eventually gave up and let me finish him. I just want like a straightish bud who is willing to let me drop by to blow him and fuck me from time to time. I know they are out there....
