dumped heartlessly

My head is reeling. I overheard a conversation between my bf and some of his friends. I thought i heard him say he wasn't really interested and im "not that smart". How devastating. I'll just drop out of his life taking whatever is left of my self esteem with me.
My suspicions were confirmed when he directed me to a party that didn't exist and I think it was designed to rip the crap out of the underneath of my car and scratch it up. Which it did.
I deserve better than that. Hope he enjoyed the laugh at my expense.

 

Forgot to say too he said im looking too old. i think that's at the core too. Too old too dumb, too broke.....Glad i like to be alone. He had very little going for him too. Nasty cruel judgemental bad mooded prick. Full of bullshit. Sounds like all the men i choose. Im over it. Who needs men like that. Not me.

 

Sorry, people can be too mean sometimes. Take a deep breath, things will get better.

 

Ouch.

Swap to girls. =)

 

i'm slightly confused. he said there was a party, and then had you drive through a field or something, and when you got there and there was no party he dumped you?

if it's anything along those lines, he sounds like a ridiculous douche.

 

I took it like he told her the party was out there and then no one showed up out there, car gets damaged and that's the "confirmation" she feels that he doesn't want her.

 

Yes he is a douch and thanks for the reps guys.
I wasn't sure the conversation was about me so rather than be paranoid i decided to dismiss it. I called him last weekend and he said he was at a party and to come out. He gave directions to a place that had a really rough drive. My car was too low and i couldn't turn around. The drive came to a road! No houses, no party. Following this i have heard nothing from him. Putting it together with some of the comments on me looking "older".....I take that as a heartless dump. If it isn't and he calls, I will dump him and send a car repair bill. Fuck that game playing dick.
Thanks for replying to this self esteemless shit i got myself into.

 

Out of curiosity, how old are you?

 

early 40's. The age between 40 and 50 is where women lose their looks. Best to focus on my career i think. Even more devastating to be screwed around at this age. Old enough to know i don't need this shit and wont be back for a second helping.

 

Oh true that's double ouchies. =( I thought you were young and naive. Well you'll be stronger for it. I wish you all the best! Stuff like this hardens the heart.

 

Hey Puddycat clearly you are just toooooo goooooood for him so as hard as it is move on for your head and heart's sake.

 

Thanks everyone. Either im too good or my self worthless loop of thinking is correct. Sounds rediculous, the whole thing, but seeing as i told his friend off and bf was wanting out or up to no good, id say they put their heads together for a laugh at my expense. Neither answered their phones that night or the next day. I have deleted their numbers and will never acknowledge them again. It a relief to let something so toxic go.

 

Thanks Amy. I will move on from him and every useless bum like him. I need some self esteem and i won't find such..."types" interesting. All they are is reinforcement of where you are at at the time. That's it.
I always have more fun with my friends anyway....don't know why i bother with such losers. Im an educated intelligent person. They are cunning, using, game players.

YOOOO HOOO feels good to tell em all to faaarkkkk ooorrrfffff!!!!

 

Could it be that there really was a party and you just got lost/couldn't find it? Maybe he thought you were coming and then ditched him?

 

Thanks xxaru for your thoughts on it. I doubt it. Was told to head up that road/driveway type thing. It came out at a dirt road. Then across the road was another gate that looked like it was locked off council land. Couldn't see any life down there....then i could not raise anyone on the phone. He hasn't called since. I think it was a goose chase. If there was life beyond the 2nd gate there would have been mail boxes? The track that screwed the car looked like it hadn't been used for a while. Anyway if he liked me or cared he'd call right? This guy has screwed me around heaps. Just the sort of person he is. Hope he feels good tonight and has the christmas he deserves.
Im going to feed my cats (the lions) i call them 4 they eat me! Ill spend my night with my pets. Least they love me.

 

This Is What I'm About, Tis 5 1/2 Hours Till Old Saint Nick Comes Down

My Chimney.

Just Sitting Outside With My Cats Watching A Bank Of Thunder Storms

Pass Through And Sipping Some Cheap Champagne.

I Suggest You Do The Same....

Seasons Greetings From Australia....



Cheers Glen.

 

:santa1:Thank you Glen. How kind of you to rep to my saga. Im here with cats and dogs sipping on a glass of red. Im feeling better now. Thankyou and merry Christmas to you and the puddys.

 

"Lose their looks?" I don't think so, I personally find women getting better looking as they get older. The guy sounds like a loser. I'm thinkin you can do better.

 

Thanks dude. Very kind of you to say but it isn't so. What's attractive about the evidence of impending death. Not natural to want someone past it for reasons of procreation if not simply the dehydration in evolution. Once you hit 40 every year you like you have done an extra half an hour in the oven. Good for you if you find that attractive, you should have roasts lining up at the oven door.
Yeah i can do better. A fellow cooked chook.

 

Thats when the urge for procreation stops and the fun part takes over. Older women have a softness about them, they know what they like and want and will tell you. Us old guys ain't gettin any better looking either but we sure are a whole lot better. Some things just improve with age.