I've been going out with this guy and we fool around and stuff but the closest we have gotten to having sex is dry humping. I kind of feel silly when it happens but alittle turned on also. Does anyone have any ideas on how to spice it up? I dont think we're gonna have actual sex anytime soon so are there any other ways we can have fun without going all the way?
I suggest taking your clothes off and get straight to shagging. I've never dry-humped, seems kinda pointless to me...
if your not ready to have sex then thats good that your not jumping into to it.. I commend you on that.. you could always give eachother body massages and other things..oral sex and want not..sorry, my advice is not good
I looooove dry humping. I've been known to orgasm from it. umm... maybe take your guys' shirts off, kiss torso's, back, neck, ears. When I do cum from it, I'm laying on my stomach with the guy behind me, rubbing against me, my legs a little spread, and he would kiss my neck/back (which is a highly erogenous area for me) I don't know many other ideas for spicing it up, really, because it's always led to sex for me, within a few weeks or right that day.
The days of only dry humping ended years and years ago for me..... It is kind of like dry heaving, You want to throw up but your not quite ready yet
No one should be dry humping at 22 years old. If yer gona swing the bat then swing for the fence! Quit acting like a 7th grader.
never been much of a fan of dry humping and really can't think of a way that would spice it up for me. that's just me though - I can't speak for other guys
First of all, 7th graders shouldn't be dry humping, period. Second of all, Jen if you're not ready to have sex with this guy then don't let people like Bug make you feel bad. Do what feels right to you. Dry humping can be fun, and that's what matters. There are lots of ways to spice that up. Shroom had some good advice! Also, you could try blindfolds, or food... just because you're not having intercourse doesn't mean you're not having fun. Enjoy yourself
I dunno how to spice up dry humping, but if you want it to lead to sex how bout when he's on top of you grab his ass, then move into his pants, but only focus on the ass, then if he doesn't get the hint (I wouldn't believe it if he didn't, maybe he doesnt want sex?) then go lower between his legs..usually he'll roll onto his side then you can grab his dick and yays! you're in! Me and my boyfriend always used to play a game called dodgy, it sounds funny now I remember it, we didn't have sex or anything but basically we'd start talking about how dodgy we'd look if someone walked in, then made it look as dodgy as we could, whether we were doing more or not, we'd like take off our shirts and be up against the wall. It's a good excuse to firstly get into coo positions and try new stuff, but not necessarily physically go further, and also cause you have excuses to take off his shirt
I want to have sex with him and it's not like i havent had sex before but this is a new relationship and i'm into actually knowing the person first before having sex with them. It is just that dry humping the same way everynight gets old and i want to try something different besides jumping right in there and getting it on because I am not ready to yet.
games with cards can be fun. me and my ex used to invent card games where different cards mean different things. use your imagination. and use time values! when you put time limits on things it can be very teasing which makes the game that much more enjoyable. we never could play for more than 20 minutes before we forgot the cards existed!
everyone has their own pace and their own things. no one here should be judging them for what they are doing as a consenting adult that is not hurting anyone. do what you're ready, don't let anyone here or otherwise make you feel you should be doing something b/c of age/gender/whatever.
