lately all I wanna do is have drunk meaningless sex.....I just got out of a 7 year relationship for the last year or so I would cringe everytime he touched me! now I crave the intenseness and the mystery of being with someone new and before you go passing judgement I am to some degree responsible I would not just go fuck some random and I always use protection.
the erotic part of being a little mind-altered during sex is that you might be more willing to let your self get into carnal desires that perhaps you didnt even know you had...
I think that's a common feeling. My best friend just got out of a 8 year marriage. She'd been with the same guy since she was 14. She got pregnant and married at 16. As soon as they decided to get a divorce she went crazy. She started to go out to bars all the time with me... and many nights she's leave with some random guy. I was worried about her, but also kind of happy for her because you could tell that she was feeling happy and free. It's not something I condone... but it was actually a good three months for her. She's since settled down.
I see that a-lot as well. I have seen goody- goody types go fuckin nuts after a long monogamus relationship. I have even seen homely girls break out, lose weight, start wearing makeup, start dressing more sexy, and etc. In some cases these are things that may have saved thier prior relationship, but sometimes they were in a bad place in that relationship anyway. Not the most interesting subject, but note-worthy.
I think this is a normal thing to go through. Be careful though--you might think you can handle it emotionally, but it could be harder than you expect. But it is good that you realize how you feel, just make sure whatever you do is for the right reasons that make sense for you.
I know people who'd break off from long-intense relationships, and end up experimenting on their house pets. People panic. FACT!
hahaha my ex's mom got a divorce from her dad last summer, and before they were even officaly divorced she was fuckin 17 year olds and buyin us alcohol, and before that she was a goody good mom with 4 kids. that wass a fun ass summer. i dunno i love bein drunk and i like to have sex, and drunk sex is fun, but it gets old...
After my wife died, and we were monogomous throughout, I have enjoyed having wild passionate sex with several very attractive women. I have been with my current girlfriend for almost three years, and we have sex every day, at least once, usually more. And it never gets old.
Not to make light of your tragedy in any way, but as they showed on Seinfeld, women go nuts for the widowers...remember Costanza?
I found out that only 2% of guys my age are widowers - the rest are married, lifelong bachelors (gay or unable to commit), or divorced. Costanza was a funny guy...
When I was young, drunk sex was great. Now that i am older, If I get buzzed, I can't get a woody worth anything. So when my wife and I go out, she drinks and don't. P.S. My wife would give two thumbs up for D.S.
I always do like jello Biafras take on drunk sex, To Drunk To Fuck! Haha, no but a good glass of chianti or chiraz, and a very special someone I Love, could make artistic revolutions with drunk sex, FACT!
My first time I was completely wasted! so was her. We drank a whole bottle of tequila and all I know was that we had mindless sex for a couple of hours. It was fun!
i love it.. and i was always pretty responsible, but this one night my boyfriend was being a total jerk to me but i was pretty much stranded there, so i had to deal with it. however i got real drunk that night and ended up sleeping with his roomate as my boyfriend at the time was in the next room passed out. it was a pretty nasty split for us after that, but i realize he never deserved me in the first place. after this, ive actually settled down and had many guilty feelings..but lemme tell ya something.. it was the best orgasm id ever had so, i guess just dont get hurt or degrade yourself or fuck around with jerks i spose. otherwise, you're single.. enjoy!
