so my boy likes to drink a little, hes definatly not an alcho but i feel a little disconected or uncomfortable around him when hes drunk, i tried getting drunk with him to see if wed be on the same level but i still felt like i didnt know him, & of course when he notices im feeling uncomfortable he makes it worse, by saying ¨why are you being weird with me?¨ & then i go all quite & dont want to talk about anything at this point ..& he expects so much attention & gets jealous more easily when drunk. which is a huge problem cos im a freedom junky & like to meet new people. i dont wanna be bossy or controlling at all but i hate him drinking, id rather him pop pills & take acid! we have such a good time when we take drugs together but everytime theres been alcohol involved we end up arguin which sux cos we have a great relationship...
hmm, pushing him towards illegal substances instead probably isn't the greatest plan but I would sit him down and try to talk it out, discuss his cutting back on drinking when you're around if possible. Don't make him stop completely, particularly when you aren't around, but ask if he can drink less when you're around (ie in smaller quantities, not getting so drunk) and offer up somethign that you could do too, so it's not just you demanding something from him
