i don't agree that anyone benefits from blame. that's a temptation, not a solution. the human emotion is prone to insecurity. sure i don't trust feeling secure, but i don't trust any emotion. they exist, are part of the experience of life, maybe even entertaining, but i still don't trust them. not my own, not someone else's, just not. would a world without emotion be horrible? depends on how responsible and considerate people were. if they were enough so without it, i don't see how that would be a problem. (oh i still love love, and hugs and all that, but the rest of it, i don't believe i would miss)