Dream premonitions

Discussion in 'Dreams' started by happilyinlove, Jan 4, 2014.

  1. happilyinlove

    happilyinlove with myself :p

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    Any experiences with these?


    There is one that really stands out to me. I dated someone for 4 years, we were really close to soul mates. I will say that he is one of mine. We just understand each other and have extreme level of compassion toward each other despite our own "short comings". The only person who has ever touched my heart and spirit the same is my fiancé. Anyway we had an on/off relationship for several years after our 4 year long exclusive relationship. Though I was never prepared to delve back into it, I was also aware of the fact that he meant something very significant to me spiritually. There are very few people that I've witnessed have complete selflessness and compassion for life. To me thats such an honest beautiful thing to experience.

    One night, I had a dream that this man would meet someone else. In the dream the woman was hispanic / dark black hair. She had a very young child and would stand between myself and my ex. The spirit and feelings this dream invoke were strife, arguments, pain and confusion. There was a very selfish tone she had and she would eventually separate the friendship my ex and I shared.

    This eventually proved true. I learned he met someone with the spitting image of the person I encountered in my dream. Her appearance was the same. She also had a very young baby. She guilts him into being with her. I know my ex, and I know his spirit and what he experiences now with her.

    I've had many other experiences throughout my life, but this one stands out as the most tangible.

    This to me is really eerie. I just wonder if anyone else has had an experience where they dream things that actually happened..?
     
  2. wiccan_witch

    wiccan_witch Senior Member

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    Often I have dreamed of a house, a place or a person and many years later have also seen them in my waking life.

    I am not sure what it means.
     
  3. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    Yes I have dream premonitions. Also spooky dreams, lucid ones and ones involving dramatic events. : D

    I also did a bit of work with tarot cards to foresee.

    On one level, I think it can be about connecting with your subconscious to absorb more info. Additionally, we don't/can't block out thoughts we consider unpleasant, in our dream life.

    In dreams I foresee disputes, problems in work and general life etc. I also get weird dreams of my past, or people from my past speaking to me, even dead people...

    I sometimes treat dreams as an insight or warning. But never that the future is set in stone.
     
  4. YouFreeMe

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    This has happened to me a couple of times. But the context is usually much more frightening/haunting.

    Your story is interesting. Makes you wonder why you had the dream to begin with. It didn't help you prevent anything, or make the pain less poignant. Of all the times that this has occurred in my life, only one of them was actually helpful, but it was an extremely minor thing.
     
  5. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    Yes I experience those dreams regularly
     
  6. happilyinlove

    happilyinlove with myself :p

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    This part is comforting, especially with bad dreams that YouFreeMe experiences (and I do) from time to time.

    I still want to know how I could have such an explicit premonition.

    I experienced it a couple years ago, and I've second guessed dreams and the future ever since. Its like I'm wondering how to make decisions when I have a strong thought / feeling positive or negative. Sometimes, I just try to ignore this part of consciousness for that reason.
     
  7. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    I try and think of premonitions as at best a friend, and at worst an alternative viewpoint. Something to consider and not fear.

    There's lots of explanations for having premonitions. It could be considered from the esoteric perspective - like someone from the future actually sending something back (I think this could have some scientific basis.... if we ever discover why).

    But a simpler explanation is where we forget information, we shut our eyes to info. And that we are actually very good at predictions when we home in the right bits of info.

    Then there's syncronicity, patterns repeating themselves that we don't really recognise, but seem to "resonate" like waves when we predict correctly.

    I've seen some people really fucked up by psychics and prophesy stuff. But my own foresights, I've tried to see as welcoming, embracing positive emotions. Focusing on the bad will only crystalise and create a bad future reality IMO. I suppose that is how witches would work in olden times.. : /
     
  8. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    Having said all the above, I had a dream a few days ago. Instantly I knew the symbolism.
    To be honest, it concerned me a little. Not terrible for them, just a suggestion that there is a problem, or that I need to communicate with them on something.
    But the matter is out of my hands for now.
     
  9. themnax

    themnax Senior Member

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    i've had lots of dreams that i've later experienced something similar in waking life. i even believe that's what deje vu actually is. that the sensation of having been there before when you haven't, comes from having dreampt it before and having forgotten dreaming it.

    the other thing though, is that to me, i have found 'premonition' dreams to be totally useless, because for one, you can never be certain which dreams are, and for two, you never know if they'll be fulfilled the next day, the next decade, or in some other life entirely.
     

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