Many years ago, the woman I was living with and I had another couple over for dinner. After which, my gf and the guy were going to do some coke, for some reason it couldn’t be done in the living room, it had to be done in the bedroom. I had no interest in coke but no judgement either. The guy’s gf sat there like no big deal, maybe it was no big deal. I’ve been to plenty of parties where people got together in the bathroom to do some lines. The we were going sideways as a couple and for me that was the end of the line, pardon the pun. The memory popped into my head for no apparent reason, maybe a subconscious thing. So, anyone have a similar story when a SO did something kind of sketchy? Was I right or wrong to suspect something was going on?
I became suspicious when my wife didn't come home after her evening college class. I looked in her bathroom drawer and her diaphragm was gone. I had my suspicions. At 7:00 AM next morning here she comes. I asked and she said she spent the night with a guy she met at school. She showed me a piece of paper with his name and number on it. I asked if she fucked him she said NO. I then said, I think this marriage is over. I said I think you need to leave. So she did. I'll stop there.
Rob is dead on to be suspicious of her actions. Probably the two were only doing a line but then it depends on how long they cooped up in the bedroom together. But there's no reason they couldn't do it in the LR. Just for had better evidence with the early morning return and the missing diaphragm along with the denial of having sex with the classmate. Kinda hard to swallow she took the diaphragm with her and didn't need it. My spouse hooked up with an old flame after we had been married a while, maybe 10 months or so. The scenario was that she met him just to have lunch. I was off work that day and confined myself to the couch for the afternoon. (Football season) It was rather late when she returned and also very loving. Noting the time was early evening and "lunch" should have taken maybe a couple of hours plus her increased attention made me suspicious. I let it ride until the time was right where I could inquire about her afternoon. At first she didn't admit to anything but after a while she came out and admitted to ending up at his place. They had sex under the thought of her wanting to be sure she had made the right choice in me versus him. Being very remorseful about the whole thing I got plentiful apologies from her. I was unsure of how to take the knowledge she had done this but after I had time to mull it over I felt it was an honest question in her mind that she solved. From there we went on with our lives together having a boatload of sexual fun with no regrets. Sometimes you just have to forgive and forget. It's probably why I now have my sexual fun with other women as she has had to become celibate.
