Don't want to seem eagar

So i had been texting this girl for a bit and we decided to go for drinks the night went well blah blah she crashed at mine,the next day i walked her to work and everything was good, i later sent her a text just saying hope work isn't to bad and just wanted too say i had a good time last night .

She later replied saying it wasn't to bad and me too xxxx, we havn't spoke since which was only yesterday, i don'tt want to seem to eagar and text her i want to be chased as well.

What are your opinions should i just wait for a text or text her.

 

shit, i wish there was an answer to this. it's one of those things where you're supposed to just know exactly how long she wants you to wait, and if you're wrong you're not boyfriend material.

 

Basically act on your sincere thoughts and feelings. If you do anything but that, she won't get to know the real you. If she doesn't like it now, she won't like it later.

 

If you figure out a way to have women chase men for something other than money and bottle it, I`m pretty sure you'll be a billionaire in no time.

Shit, I`d buy the heck out of it.

 

I know why different age groups of female humans chase boys/men.

But it's not something marketable on the free enterprise, and it's always consistent.

I'd kinda like criminal profiling. The reasons for why someone does ___, have variations of different motivations and methods.

You can predict general trends, but being super precise...much harder to do.

 

Text her next time you're about to do something fun/interesting, and ask her if she wants to join in. If that's tonight fine, if it's a few days from now... fine too.

 

if it's february, you're screwed.

 

This neurotic shit highlights why relationships suck and are bullshit. Since when did everything become so rigid about "how you're supposed to be/act"? How about just being a real person?

"Should I text?" "Shouldn't I text?"... Man, fuck that!

 

Indeed.

No guessing, just sincerity.

 

Regardless, those rules do exist though, despite as much, with both sides really genuinely wanting sincerity.

The problem is I think the "players" (male or female) who lead people on, and take advantage of those who are genuinely sincere. Once you get burned/used/deceived by someone like that the "rigid rules" are adopted as a sociological/psychological defense mechanism to prevent yourself from experiencing a similar situation.

This also applies to those who get rejected too.


But I hope this is a satisfactory answer to Pressed Rat's question.