don't have to many 'friends'

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by raz5, May 20, 2009.

  1. raz5

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    i get along with people pretty well, but i don't have very many actual friends. i'm really picky with that word aktually, i find many people acquaintances but unless it's someone i talk to or see on a regular basis i'm not friends with them. my mom says i'm a loner... i think it's kinda funny she says it but in a way she's pretty correct.

    some people get annoyed by me saying that and say it's dumb but it's just the way i think, is anyone else like that?
     
  2. Holographic Trousers

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    some people prefer solitude, which can be completely healthy.
     
  3. raz5

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    yeah i like being around people but i'm peculiar with being social. i like to check things out a lot before i can be comfortable, i don't trust people easy, but it depends on the day. some times i'm fine and out going then some times i'm quiet and just hangin out.
     
  4. Unknown American

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    True friends are rare.

    You are wise to be selective. Nothing wrong with being a "lone wolf".

    It has been said your true friends can be counted with one hand. (meaning 5 fingers). I think that is correct.

    But I am a recluse. So I am not the right person to ask.
     
  5. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    I have one rl quality friend. Its all I need. I choose to be alone most of the time.
    I do have friends who Ive never met. from here. UA Is my friend.
     
  6. deleted

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    its nice to have someone else close the windows when its raining.. :D
     
  7. raz5

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    what... what orison? what was that??? was that supposed to be humor???
     
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    Well I have to close all the window myself.. So you can imagine how wet the carpet gets.. :D
     
  9. raz5

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    good it should
     
  10. Unknown American

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    You know I would do anything for you.

    I do think it is possible to develop connections to people online. I definitely have a connection with you.:)

    But in real life dealing with me on a regular day to day basis you might think I am an asshole.;)

    But she was talking about people she deals with and lives close to and interacts with in person.
     
  11. raz5

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    haha i mean both actually, i like the people on here, that's why now that i'm not working it's like i'm on here because i enjoy the people... there's people that are sarcastic and understand sarcasm.. and there's people that enjoy the same things i enjoy and don't judge and aren't prissy and i dig it. it may be lame but who cares
     
  12. SpacemanSpiff

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    some of the friends here are better than real ones
     
  13. raz5

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    true that
     
  14. raz5

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    hip forums should be a show or something.
    no it shouldn't but it was a good idea for a minute.
     
  15. BraveSirRubin

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    It might just be because you smell.

    Take a shower, hippie.
     
  16. Unknown American

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    Well if you mean both. There are definitely people I consider friends.

    However liking someone and being a real life friend are 2 different things.

    Hilder is one of the exceptions becase she has been their for me for a long time. We knew each other before we came on HF.
     
  17. raz5

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    no my actual friends smell too :( and they shower
     
  18. raz5

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    yeah i like people on here but i wouldn't consider myself really 'friends' with any except for soaringeagle (he lives not too far from me and is a very great guy) and this kid mike who is barely on here ...
     
  19. BraveSirRubin

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    I'm gonna resist making a whole lot of jokes.
     
  20. raz5

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    good
     
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