Don't get the wrong impression

I am here because I was curious to see what results I got if I searched the internet for female masturbation. I am a guy and of course sex is often I'm my thoughts. And that is likely to influence my participation.

Yet of course there is much more that I think about too.

Something I yearn for is a female friend I can talk about sex with as a friend; a true friend. Usually when women say "just friends" they mean no sex but they don't want me to talk about other women; I hope you understand. I am uncomfortable talking about sex with other men and I think I could be comfortable with a woman. I am not in much of a position to do much of anything else except talk.

If someone were to get to know me then they would discover a strong interest in human relationships and things like that.

 

You probably should have opened up with something a bit more insightful about yourself first though.

 

Do you mean as in the other posts here? Mia says she wants "to get a question answered". Someone with an alphabet name says something about "anger resurrected my brain cells". Michael just said hello. OpenMindedGuy says he is a bicurious married guy. And so forth.

But if you are sincere about being a friend then I should not be so quick to react like that. Perhaps we should recognize that we might both have barriers to opening up.

There are many people that talk and talk and talk and talk. I think they want to get attention and appreciation and they just don't understand that the more they talk the less likely they will get gratification. People have many ways to avoid them but most people do. I wish there was a nice way to say that I wish I could provide what they are seeking but it is emotionally draining for me and I don't have much to give. But people seem to consider listening to be a responsibility and I am rude for saying (even nicely) that I can't help. So people think I am a good listener but that is only because I am too nice to say something.

So that would be the most likely barrier to friendship for me. I prefer a more quiet type and not because I want to be the dominant one. A quiet type of person is less likely to open up.