Does your wife know where you are?How do you find the time?

Does your wife know what you're up to ?
With Apple tags, security cameras, where is my phone apps, etc. there is no place or time to do anything private anymore. If you are retired, how do you find the time for your sexual shinanigans? I am lucky that my wife knows and visually participates when I do have the opportunity.

 

When you're retired, you have nothing but time unless you're one of those retirees who keeps ripping and running all over the place. Does she know? Yes. I tell her that I'm going to get some dick, she says, "Okay - be safe!" and I, handle the dick, and come on back home. When I was working, yeah, it was harder scooping out some time to meet with guys and gals, but I managed and there were times when I wished I could have retired so I would have the time.

But I can see how guys who have to sneak around to get some would have to be worried about tags, cameras, phone apps and the like.

 

Yes she does. It was my fault for tracking her when she literally had a risky job going door to door for awhile. Told her it was only for if she didn't come back at the end of the day.

Now she tracks me thinking I'll have an affair or see a sex worker - all because she refuses to have sex anymore, and doesnt want me having an open marriage! Quite the fucking hypocrite! She doesn't seem to know about my bi interests, which I'm pretty sure she'd be irate over! Yet another hypocritical double standard!

As Kdaddy has said to other women not fucking their men, do you think just because you stopped wanting to ever have sex that he is ok with it, and that he won't find it elsewhere because you forced him to?!

 

The wife and I don’t track each others phones. I will also have a friend come over while she isn’t home and I know she won’t return for a while. We are both very independent so there is opportunity.

 

The last 10 years of my first marriage of 25 years I did sneak around behind her back to mutually suck dick with other married guys. Tracking devises weren't all that available back then. I never once hid my desires for cock with my present wife of 13 years. She knows what I enjoy doing with other guys and has no problem with it at all.

 

We don't track each othes movements, but we usually do know what the other is doing 99% of the time, without use of tracking,etc. When my buddy and I are on the boat, she will watch us blowing each other on the security cameras. No secrets to hide.

 

Thankfully my wife knows I have a male fwb. While she knows she doesn't want to watch. Rats. We just get together when she is going to be out of the house for an hour or two. She always calls before she comes back. She knows if I don't answer that we are still busy.

 

She doesn’t know, I try to be as discreet as possible sometimes I just go out after work for a hour and come back or say I’m helping a friend. Technically I’m helping him cum lol , I don’t want her ever to know, my life as I know it would be over. I go weeks without sex cause I don’t want her to be suspicious. My schedule changes next week back to normal hours. I’ll be free during the day and it’s much easier to get then now during summer hours.

 

I was doing this for the last 12-15 years of my first 25-year marriage. I simply thought, what she doesn't know will not hurt her and honestly, she really didn't want to know I was out sucking other guys cocks.

 

majority of the time wife know who I’m with or I know who she is with as well. We have open relationships and she wants me as bi/gay …she is one who brought out the bi/gay in me that I never knew I had..

 

No, my wife doesn’t know. If she did it would shatter her world. And mine. But she doesn’t want sex any more. What’s a guy to do?

 

This is what I experienced with my first wife of 28 years. It's much easier to hook up with another guy to exchange blow jobs than it is to seek out another woman and deal with her drama as well.

 

Ain’t that the truth!

 

In all honesty, based on my personal experiences there are way more married men out there mutually sucking dick or searching for a guy to suck them off than people realize. Its really sad that so many married women refuse to provide 10 minutes of their time to suck their husbands dick and keep him happy. Oh well, for many in that situation I was available to provide for them.

 

In almost every moment of every day, a man - married or otherwise - is finding out that pussy isn't the only game in town. Naturally inclined to want cock; that sense of curiosity a lot of men develop when they're young and it never really goes away; being in the right place at the right time and with the right person; even the guy who says he would never do anything like this is finding out today that he should have been doing it all along... and especially the husband whose wife either stopped having sex with him or refuses to suck his cock to completion or otherwise. If those men don't know anything else, they know that there are other guys who suck cock... and much more.

A great many of these men are finding this out and also finding that they have a need to keep it a secret from friends, family, to whom it may concern. It is truly sad that things have to be this way; it's a damned shame that a wife will want to take her husband to the cleaners and bankrupt him and all because of something she refuses to do for him and, um, his best friend wanted to take care of that. He gets his head handed to him, goes through an ugly divorce, and she walks away practically Scot free because the law says that she doesn't have to have sex with him if she doesn't want to.

And this action happens because she didn't think of or believe that if she didn't take care of her man, someone else could, would, and did - and it was another guy and one who was, very likely, in the same situation.

 

Divorce

 

I'm not married, but I host and most married guys stop buy during lunch hour.

 

The Urges will become so strong, you will make the time, because you'll have to..When the cravings come calling, they dont enjoy taking no for an answer

 

Ain't that da truth!

 

Mine tracks me too. I’ve found that

I’ve been with dudes that their wife was tracking them. We will meet at the Home Depot or Lowe’s hardware stores and I’ll suck them off in the parking lot. It’s worked several times for them and me.