Does your penis size influence your orientation (top or bottom)?

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  1. Men, did/does the size of your penis influence your orientation, your choice of preferring to be a top man or a bottom man? If you have a small cock, does your size make you feel like you would be better at bottoming because you are so small? Do many of you top men have a smaller penis but you still want to top rather than bottom?

    My answer to this question is that I do prefer to bottom, so I seek out top men. I am just 4 inches. I feel that my smallness makes me a better bottom man than a top man. I get just as much pleasure (maybe even more pleasure) when I bottom than I did when I used to be versatile and open to topping and flip-fucking. This is good for me because it is the pleasure I get when my partner cums in me and is completely satisfied that I enjoy most of all.
     
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  2. FredBrice

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    My choice of preferring to be a bottom man to being a top.
     
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  3. MaggieX

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    Top but want to try bottoming too
     
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  4. DaveTheBiGuy

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    My "size" has nothing to do with it. I'm 7"c and fairly thick, which isn't small by any means, yet I always have been, and always will be a bottom with guys. That's never gonna change, and my own cock size is irrelevant in the matter.
     
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  5. JeffT

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    Size isn't a factor. I just totally prefer being a feminine submissive bottom guy.
     
  6. DaveTheBiGuy

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    That seems to be a pretty common thing for a lot of the bottom guys here
     
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  7. DaveTheBiGuy

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    You say size isn't a factor. How "big" are you, are you gay or bisexual, and how did you first discover your feminine side?
     
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    Size has zero to do with it for me. I’m average in size and told I’m on the thick side. I enjoy bottoming because I like how it feels and prefer a top that is average or smaller. A smaller cock can get into me easily without having to go slow. Since I’m very tight a guy with a big cock needs to go slow and not all tops get that.
     
  9. dd788snipe

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    I'm a little above average. Never cared to top with Men only only with women. I just love the feel of a cock in my ass and love to be dominated.
     
  10. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Gay, bisexual and "straight" is sexual orientation, being a top or bottom ISN'T.
    With women (my wife) I can be a top or bottom, and enjoy both. We have a strap-on that's about 9" and thick that she pegs me with.
    Even though I'm 7"c and fairly thick, I've never had the desire to top another guy. I've known since my early teens that I'm a total bottom with guys, so no, my cock size definitely DIDN'T influence the fact that I only bottom with guys.
     
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  11. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Absolutely not. Could I possibly top another guy with my 7"c hard inches? Yeah, probably, but that's not who I am. I'm NOT a top.
    While I can admire and appreciate another guy's nice ass, the idea of topping another guy has never been appealing to me. From the very beginning, being a sexually submissive bottom with men has always just seemed right, and a natural "fit" for me.
    Once a bottom, ALWAYS a bottom for this bisexual guy, and my own cock size is irrelevant in the matter.
     
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  12. topper

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    Im not into getting fucked by a guy, but have done it for the experinece with 2 friends. Getting pegged by my wife and her bag of tricks is the greatest. Doing it to myself also tops the list . Im into the orgasmic sensations, not really into doing it with a guy.
     
  13. dd788snipe

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    Have you ever topped a guy?
     
  14. KDaddy23

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    Nope, not at all - and size is overrated. The size of my dick is what it's always been - and always will be; what should matter is do I know how to use it to good effect and I'm not sure I understand why the size of my dick would matter if I'm going to be taking yours in my ass. Growing up, sure - if you had the bigger dick, then that meant that the guy with the smaller dick would suck your dick and/or take it in the ass but many of us weren't of a mind to do things like that or, really - why should you be the only one having fun? So, no: The size of my dick has never determined whether I top or bottom - that all depend on how I'm feeling and I have been known to change my mind.
     
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  15. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Definitely not. Could I be capable of topping another guy with my 7 rock hard inches? Yeah probably, but that's never been an appealing option for me personally.
    I'm a total bottom (and sexually submissive) with men. When I'm with another guy, I want that nice big dick in my mouth and ass, and in reality, I'm really not that concerned with having my own cock pleasured. I won't say no to having my cock sucked, but honestly, I'd much rather have his dick in my mouth, and him pleasuring my ass with his dick.
    My own cock size is totally irrelevant, because I always have, and ALWAYS will be a total bottom with men, as that is what's always been natural to me.
     
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