Does this mean im gay/or bi

Ive notived that whenever i see a hot guy, on TV or something ill think. Hes hot.....and feel attracted to him. Ive also had sexual fantasies about other males?

does this mean im gay/bi? or is just a phase a lot of tenagers go through?

 

Nothing wrong with being curious. You're not the only one.

 

Its never easy to tell...after all sexuality is not a concrete thing divided into three defined parts.

When I was going through the period when I was denying I was bi, everytime I would feel attraction to a guy I would take time to convince myself that I wasn't feeling anything. Certainly don't do that. The day I accepted the possibility without any fear, it became clear that I was a bisexual. You're obviously being more open minded about it than I was, I think I agree with whereami and you're just experiencing curiousity, don't be afraid to explore it.

 

Join Us...Join Us (Ghostly Tone)

 

lol....... i like your quote closet kid


thanks for the advice everyone

im not trying to convince myself im not because i dont relaly care either way.....just wondering

 

It doesn't really matter. I mean, if it feels right by all means go with it.

 

I agree with what nightowl said...

if you feel that you're attracted to men and want to identify yourself as gay/bisexual/whatever, then do it. It's your life, live it in the fashion you want to.

 

i shall......i just dont want to "come out" before im sure

 

it means youre as gay as a daisy so get on with it and enjoy it.......... or it could be that your just discovering your sexuality.
after all good looks are good looks whether there male female transgender or sheep

 

^^^ I like this guy already^^^^

 

Sheep? ......SHEEP? ew.

 

some of them are real pretty....and plentiful where i live.
but not wishing to take this off theme

 

I don't know if anyone's ever sure. But I'd save coming out until you've actually acted on those urges. Just makes it easier to be sure. I'd say just try it and it'll either feel right or it won't. You don't have to come out just because you enjoy it either though.

 

Why do you feel like you HAVE to come out? Even when you do decide to act on it,it's still your business what you do & no one else's. Just take care of yourself,find what you like,be safe,have fun. Nobody can tell you otherwise.

 

I agree. Perfect answer WhereamI!

 

yes agreed nailing your colours to the mast at such a tender age would spoil a lot of experimental fun and could lead to exploitation.
just go and have clean safe sexy fun