hey all ive asked you all before about this but now i think someone who i thought was out of my league fancies me. well im gonna try to explain this in much detail as possible well everytime we get called to the front of the class we have to stand next to each other and today i stood about 5 feet away from her and she goes danny i dont smell then in other lessons she stares at me for a second then looks away and when other kids say something to me like shut up she goes leave him alone and she talks to me different from the other kids in the class well i dunno if she fancies me or she is just being nice
Go for it you never know till you try. I can't be sure, if she likes you or not. Just give it a try thats all you can do.
Listen to Sarahrei! The lady knows! love your new sig-pic Sarah! Om Muni Muni Mahāmuni Śākyamuni Svāhā __________________ Sheryl Soft and tender, tough and hard .... Never touched a razor .... I shall love her always!
Unasked for and inappropriate advice: The next time that that happens, you say in an even louder voice, "Well I don't think that your blowjobs are worth $5 anyway!" case closed! Be polite to those that are polite to you. Rip ass on the others!
She didn't back stab you. You just read her wrong. The worst thing that can happen is she says no, which really isn't the end of the worlds.
Get over it dude! Girls and women are the same as boys and men .... all of us are just humans .... some nice .... some not so nice. Try to avoid dealing with the not so nice.
Ahh I miss the days of high school crushes Seems like so long ago! These things can always be tricky. I know what it's like to be shy and afraid of rejection. She might have a crush on you, but she might also just be a friendly girl. Have you noticed how she acts towards other boys? Is she friendly and flirtatious to them? I would try flirting with her more and see how she responds. If you make it obvious that you are flirting and not just "being friendly" her reaction towards you will tell you a lot about how she feels. If she seems to be into it, suggest hanging out sometime to study, see a movie, go christmas shopping... something casual. That way if she declines you don't have to feel like you were turned down or rejected, and you can play it off easily.
guiltyconscience and enigma-the-one - - I can empathize with both of you. You probably don’t believe me, but I was 22 once, and even more unbelievable, I was also a teen trying desperately to fit into a world that just didn’t have a spot where I fit comfortably. If you continue to try to figure out what’s going on in a young woman’s head or heart by analyzing tiny clues …. give it up! Girls can do that without any training or experience, but it’s tough for guys …. leads to frustration and mistakes. Meanwhile the other guys are grabbing off the more desirable ladies. Be straight up and honest. Do not try to play games and do not try to be somebody that isn’t you. You don’t want a girl that is a game player, and she doesn’t want a fake. Take any girl that you’re attracted to ….. in the morning just walk up to her and say, “Hi name goes here , would you meet me at the water fountain at lunch time? I’d really like to have lunch with you today.” She can only say yes or no. If she’s rude, then she isn’t somebody that you’d want to share lunch with anyway. If you’re too embarrassed or too shy, still be straight up and honest …. “Hi name goes here , I’m shy/embarrassed but I’m gonna say this anyway …. (take a deep breath here) …. would you meet me at the water fountain at lunch time? I’d really like to have lunch with you today.” Most nice young women are pushovers (or at least open) for shy guys who don’t try to cover up their inadequacies with fake bluster.
I understand what you are saying, but different advice works for different people. That is the beauty of these forums. The question is asked and people of all different ages, locations, experiences and ideals can chip in and give advice. Let the poster decide what works better for him No need to criticize everyone who gives advice you don't necessarily agree with.
underlining done by the Troll If you can point out a single instance in this thread where I criticized anybody I'll buy you a beer! :cheers2: I always listen to the words of the Buddha .... paraphrased .... Don't take anything that anybody says as the truth until you find that it is suitable for you yourself. If I haven't been clear to you; here it is straight up. All I asked of you (or anybody else) is to listen and consider. The choice of acceptance is up to you! Have fun and play safely!
I'm clearly unwanted in this thread so I'm unsubscribing, but I'm not grabbing the last word .... flame me if you must and I'll check back in a few days to see if I got burned or not.
