Does it hurt....

How bad does it hurt when the hymen breaks when you first have sex?

 

bad but equally good. I don't think it always breaks the first time you have sex-but I could be wrong.

 

I didn't think that it hurt at all.

 

didn't hurt for me, nor did I bleed... I think I probably broke my hymen earlier... it's a pretty fragile bit of the female body. Riding a bike over bumpy road can apparently break it, for crying out loud. Just make sure you guys have A LOT OF FOREPLAY! Foreplay is your friend!!! And lube. Lube is good.

 

lots of lube, that will make things easier too

 

It hurt me lots. But after the scond or third time it stopped hurting.

 

only one way to find out:X

 

same here. and i bled. quite a bit actually.

 

My first time didnt hurt at all, but the second time hurt like none other. the third fourth and fifth times were still not very comfortable for me. But after the fifth time it was smooth sailing, and it felt good.

 

Omg! You Bleed!?!?!?!?

 

i have no idea when mine broke...cos the first time i had sex i didnt feel any pain or experience bleeding.

I blame it on gymnastics!

 

i never felt any pain or saw any blood come out...

 

whats a hymen, and whats it do?

 

I bled like a mother. It isn't so great the first time, but after that, it's fabulous!

 

Bleeding the first time you have sex is very normal,
and how bad it hurts is very individual.
For some people it hurts like the shanananana,
but to others it doesn't hurt at all.
I was lucky enough to belong in the last group.
There's only one way to find out, really.

 

I think that needs to be more specific Ringo, it's normal when you're a woman, if you're a man and that happens, seek medical attention quick!

 

Ah, of course vinny, silly me, I didn't think about that.
Bleeding the first time you have sex when you're a WOMAN is very normal.

 

You know I think men should also be told thats normal cause alot of times if it's their 1st time too, men might see blood and start a panic like hell, thinking like they broke something inside.(well, something that wasn't supposed to be broke)

 

Yeah, but I think most know it's normal.
If not, they need to have better sexual education.

 

Alot of places here sex education doesn't exist, but then again that's what friends are for.