Does anyone think they are bad at Sex?

I'm just wondering. Its one of those things that you never hear. I'll be the first to admit I absolutely suck at pool and I'm not very good at painting - shit there are many things.


However, no one (including myself) admits to being bad at sex.


Is it because of the old saying sex is like pizza, even when its bad its good? This I don't find to be entirely true as I have certainly been with a couple of girls where I tried my damdest to finish up and get outta there as quick as possible as they weren't all that great.

 

im often bad at sex. more often im extreemly good. im more of a cuddly kissy warm fuzzy bear type of person. but sometimes it takes me til the second or third time to get into the swing of things. im very good at oral sex if a woman can turn me on with her soul, so that i guess is my saving grace.

 

i definately have a lot to learn... or at least try... i'd say i'm bad only in the way that i'm only actaully skilled when it comes to missionary.

but hell i've only been 'learning' for a months so gimme a break! hehehe

 

Wayfaring I understand what your saying in regards to getting in tune with a new partner. New Sex partners tend to be like new cars you got to break them in a bit before they run properly But what I mean is someone saying you know what, no matter how hard I try I just suck at sex.

 

The only way sex can be bad is if the other person is totally selfish and won't do anything to pleasure you. If you find yourself with someone who lacks certain skills but wants to learn hot to please you, they can learn and eventually become a great lover.

 

maybe it's because sex isn't that hard...

 

I've had average sex, good sex, great sex, awesome sex and, from time to time, bad sex. It depends on your attitude and the attitude of your partner as much as anything else. The only bad sex I have had in recent times is when my partner said yes but wasn't really into it.

I don't go with the sex and pizza analogy. And I'm glad that dhs thinks the same way.

Average sex is easy. And that's about as far as many go in a lifetime. Great or awesome sex is hard and takes knowledge, understanding and practice. Thats the message I give my children. If they want the knowledge to awesome sex, I am prepared to give it to them. But I want them to come to me to avoid embarrassment on their parts.

 

i'm feeling down. i was great, i think but i've lost it. instead i'm now an oral master. oh well.

 

im the best......

 

I always thought i was shit, but then most the chicks Ive been with think Im really good. I think it's just a self-image/ego thing.

 

I'm told I'm really really good.

 

I don't believe in heresay - I'd have to experience it for myself

 

Hahahaha. Well then, come to KY and experience me.

 

Clearly the gulf coast beaches of Florida are a much more desirable location for such a rendevouz and besides, I happen to have a pretty kick ass hot tub down here.

 

Oh, really?

 

Come and see for yourself - its not heresay

 

Lol. I just might.

 

Back in my "hetero" or "bisexual" days I was always bad with males but with females I'll have to say that I've gotten quite a few compliments. I always enjoy it x100...if that says anything.

 

As long as I get mine, I don't care! LMFAO

 

I think the reason you don't hear too many people say that is because they figure if they're getting off on it, it must be good.

I used to wonder about myself a bit, thought maybe I was a little prudish, but after hearing so many other chics talk about how they don't give head, don't move alot, don't get on top, yada yada, I started to think I'm probably not half bad