do you think there is someone for everybody?

i'm really not sure what i think. but i think i may disagree.

discuss.

a poll will be posted shortly

 

maybe.

 

I think that is an impossible question to answer...Maybe so, maybe not.. Who knows really... But there is always you for yourself.. so that in turn is basically someone...

 

I don't believe it. I really can't argue as to why I think this...I just do.

 

of course it's impossible to answer definitively. thats why i'm asking what people think/believe rather than asking for an absolutely true answer:cheers2:

 

absolutely not. it's actually a pretty stupid concept if you think about it.

maybe if i believed in intelligent design i'd feel differently, but even then it's kind of a silly idea.

 

I voted for the first two.

It fully depends on the person. Some people like to be alone. Some people perpetuate their loneliness and never get over it. Some people just want to love EVERYBODY. Some people are only right for you at a certain point in your life. But one thing I know for sure is, there is always ONE person to find you attractive. Always, somewhere.

 

hell yeah

 

thats sort of my opinion

but thats why i'm torn between thinking there are multiple people for everyone (potentially) and there isnt someone for everyone, that some people are doomed to loneliness through no fault of their own

 

i agree with this mostly.

especially when it comes to attraction.

everyone is beautiful to somebody, or else there would be no such thing as fat granny midget porn.

but i'm thinking more in terms of a "soul mate" only not necessarily exactly this concept....more the feeling, intimacy and attachment connected with it, you know?

 

Really?!??

I was saying it is impossible FOR ME to answer, I don't know.. And don't really care if there is or isn't... I don't think there is a destined person for someone, that's silly... But there CAN be someone you bond with so deeply that you somewhat feel that they were meant for you perhaps..but then the next day you wake up and roll over and see them and then you think differently...

Again, there is always yourself, so again therefore there is someone for everybody..

 

I'm convinced I have no soul mate. Not positive I have a soul.

 

i'd say that there are multiple people that most people could end up with, but that doesn't mean they are actually "for each other." they may absolutely hate each other and still stay together for any number of reasons. and then are are also some people who are doomed to loneliness.

 

You could always look in a dumpster...That's where I found mine...

 

Soulmate, or your soul? Or both?

 

My soul silly! I traded a 40ounce for it in the BFI down the street in the alley... I'm growing my soul mate in a petri dish...

 

Absolutely, there is.

You are not what you are, you are what other people see you as.

 

i have no idea.
if i had to give a definite answer it'd be something like
yes, but that doesn't mean that they'll ever even meet each other.

 

there are definitely lots of possible people for everybody

 

I think people are compatible in certain ways and not in others.