Do you really believe in Soul mates and love?

Do you literally believe that each person on this planet has another person that they are meant to be with and have romantic relationship and reproduce with planned before birth ?

do you believe that we are spiritual beings, or simply higher intelligence animals that seek to reproduce and we attach too much significance to our relationships and love is a delusion made by hormones...


do you believe that people are wired to be monogamous and faithful, or to be promiscuous and have multiple partners ? is it natural? should we not trust and simply enjoy sexual satisfaction and interpersonal interaction but attach no emotional significance? or is that selling ourselves short of the true love that we all have to be patient for ?

 

If I say I do, it comes with a "that doesn't mean it always comes out right."

 

I absolutely don't. People just thrive with compatibility and give it various names, sometimes to fit what they've already been conditioned to believe by society

 

Yes and No.

I know there's "the one" but that doesn't mean you'll find "the one" and live happily ever after. You could be like me .. find "the one" and immediately go to Hell.

I'm a heterosexual monogamist at heart. I've had plenty of casual sex relationships but it's made me very sick. It's been a form of self-harm. I've been celibate for almost 6 years now and I'll stay that way for the rest of my life. For me, true love and soul mates don't matter anymore. What matters is ME .. I'm unfit to be in a relationship .. no matter who it is.

But for people who are healthy and stable enough to be in a relationship .. yes, there is such a thing as *mutual* true love and "the one". One of the reasons why abstinence is encouraged is so that people don't end up LIKE ME.

 

Yes, size eleven socks

 

Is that your soul talking? Try barefoot or sandals, see if you don't activate the Law of Attraction lmao

 

I give them my body,but deny them my essence...

 

yes.......

 

Well no I don't believe in soul mates if soul means sense of spirit but law of attraction is not yoked or it is choked over time.

 

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who dat

 

correct!

 

It's from the film "Dr Strangelove".

 

Base Commander Jack D. Ripper

"A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual, and certainly without any choice. That's the way your hard-core Commie works. I first became aware of it, Mandrake, during the physical act of love... Yes, a profound sense of fatigue, a feeling of emptiness followed. Luckily I — I was able to interpret these feelings correctly. Loss of essence. I can assure you it has not recurred, Mandrake. Women, er, women sense my power, and they seek the life essence. I do not avoid women, Mandrake...but I do deny them my essence."

 

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I don't believe there is only one person in the whole world that you are meant to be with. I believe there are many people you may meet in your life that you are compatible with. It's up to the individual if they choose to live a monogamous life or not. Some people want the happily ever after. Some people don't.

I have found the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. We've been together half off my life and I can't imagine my world without him by my side. With the exception of my father, my husband is the best man I've ever known. Although I don't believe there is only one perfect person for everyone, I have found the most perfect one for me. I think I'll keep him for a while longer.

I think people who only want sex with no emotional attachment are selling themselves short. Sex is great but there is something that loving and being loved unconditionally does for you that emotionless sex doesn't. There is a happiness and a content feeling too know I have my person that will love me and always have my back when I need him. You don't get that with casual sex.

 

I don't think there's anything pre destined about it.

It seems to me to work on different levels. For one thing there's definitely a thing about sexual compatibility. That's the beginning of it. But even near perfect sexual chemistry by itself isn't enough.

There has also to be compatibility on a number of other levels for it to work.
Thats my experience anyway.

If we are wired for monogamy, I think it's nurture rather then nature, as societies have existed where there were other things going on, and I assume it all felt right and natural for those people.

 

No to most of the questions! I do believe that some people are much more compatible with some other people then they are with others. The key is to finding that other person that is your ideal partner and hanging on to them when you do. It took me a long time to find that person and lots of trial and error with others a long the way. Without all the trial and error a long the way I would not have known when i did find the right one so no regrets.

 

When you meet the one, you know. There's only one "one". You can have plenty of partners .. casual or serious .. and those partners can be good or not. But there's only one "one".

I think people endanger themselves by disbelieving.

People want to be free .. without consequences. Well, there are consequences. Such as .. the loss of the right one.

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