Do You HAVE To Use Lube for Vaginal Sex?

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by TheAngelFromMyNightmare, Feb 17, 2020.

  1. TheAngelFromMyNightmare

    TheAngelFromMyNightmare Newbie

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    Hi,

    I know the benefits of using lube for penetrative vaginal sex, and I have nothing against it, however...

    Whilst using a condom, do you HAVE to use lube to prevent the condom from possibly breaking?

    Thanks!
     
  2. bft4evr

    bft4evr Senior Member

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    Some are prelubed so no for that kind.

    If you do use lube on a "dry" condom make sure it is water based. Other kinds may eat away at the condom negating its effectiveness.
     
  3. Bicaptain My Captain

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    Proper foreplay should have her wet enough that even a dry condom on a cock will slide right in.
     
  4. Barry Thrift

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    Cant stand condoms, but if you have to use condoms that take extra lube on them as there are some that do that.

    Water-based or silicone lube can make sex feel even better, and it helps stop condoms from breaking.
     
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  5. Barry Thrift

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    Not all women get wet the way you say, no matter what you do so these women need extra lube coconut oil is very good but not with condoms, great for us older guys who's wives are past that problem and if have had the cut ( vasectomy ) but for those who are still fertile and condoms are your third sex partner and have a women who just cant get wet just find a oil or cream that's works well with condoms and the wife, not all our women are friendly to oils and cream's so find one that suits her, do that and your get a good sex life.
     
  6. tumbling.dice

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  7. starfield03

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    No you don't.
     
  8. Barry Thrift

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    Wait till you get older your find out that lubrication is a must if your still having sex, you can trust me there or your wife goes dry, it happens and its then that lubrication becomes a must have thing around you your house as you never know when your want it.

    Sex rears its head at the most odd times and places, that you can trust me on, but then its the fun of having sex.
     
  9. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Yoghurt also works.
     
  10. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    You should really keep a variety of lubes, water based, silicone & synthetics. Different things require different lubes. Different toys require different lubes and oh! a tube of numbing gel goes wonders in other areas. ;)
     
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  11. olderndirt

    olderndirt Senior Member

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    For young folks, if she isn't wet enough to self-lube, then you still have some work to do. For us older folks, a little lube might help.
     
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  12. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    Every woman is different. Some never need lube, some need it every time, and for others it depends on where they are in their cycle.
     
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  13. Dax

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    Exactly. No need for any lube unless you a wham bang thank you maam guy and if you are you never ever gonna satisfy your partner come what may.
     
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  14. olderndirt

    olderndirt Senior Member

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    I agree.
     
  15. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member HipForums Supporter

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    It depends on what conclusions you both arrive at when you think of sexual lubricant I think.

    I mean, if to her that means the sex is perverted or somehow less loving, then no I wouldn't use it. Some may feel that only perverts use lubricant.
    On the other hand, you can have some just to show you're feeling frisky! :D
     
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  16. kwen

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    i think condoms already have some kind of lube on them. Putting extra lube over condom only make the experience worst in my opinion.
     
  17. Eric!

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    Yes, not a bad idea. It certainly helps.
     
  18. Bicaptain My Captain

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    Many postmenopausal women do not release natural moisture when aroused so a good lubricant is essential for both partners. KY Jelly ran an ad campaign for his and hers lubes for that market.
     
  19. Barry Thrift

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    So in steps coconut oil, its great to use anytime for both vaginal and anal sex.
     
  20. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member HipForums Supporter

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    some people really don't like that flavor - the fucking lube tastes like shit! :D LMAO
     
  21. soulcompromise

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    I think I agree. The latter are irreconcilably common - so common in fact that they really ought to take center stage; the consequence of catching them, though uncomfortable is decidedly less serious than, say, hepatitis c.
     
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