Ok ...I think the term pillowtalk is actually pretty retarded too, but don't know a better term people can relate to off the bat. What else do you call it/ "Chit Chat after the fact" "Post coital conversation" I read this from a post about a year ago...and I apologize I can't remember who said it, but he said..., " Making Love is what my girlfriend does when I am fucking her." ahhh he he...thought that was amusing.
actually, i'm in a euphoric state after i have sex. i'm so relaxed that i do go to sleep afterward. i love sleep after sex and so does my husband. he would hold me, kiss me on my forehead and we would fall asleep. that is if it's not hot. lol, then we just roll over and go to sleep after our kiss. we normally do all our talking before sex. there's no need to talk when you express your feelings in other ways. making love, sex, fucking...it's all good. depends on what you're in the mood for
I'm a very talkative person. I usually talk before, during and after once I'm comfortable enough with the person I'm with. Although the content in the conversation tends to be vastly different during sex then before and after. I usually don't sleep right after having sex but cuddling and kissing is always nice. I'm a really affectionate person by nature. I love to make love or be intimate. Those are my choice words describing what I do. However, fucking (as in kinky sex instead of loving sex) can be nice. However, I never tell a guy I want to fuck him because I usually tie it with casual sex. Since I have to be in a relationship before I have sex, I don't usually have casual sex. Unless it's dirty talk during sex in which case I will tell my partner to "fuck me harder".
Sometimes my husband and I pillow-talk, sometimes we don't, but we always snuggle up after sex if we're in bed for the evening. If it's day-time sex, we usually do the deed and then get back to whatever it was we were doing beforehand. As for what we do, sometimes it's making love and sometimes it's sex. It just depends on our moods. Both are delicious either way.
Oh yeah-I say "I hope you don't think i'm done with you yet" Doing a bowl and chillin to some nice Music with pillow talk is great. Also-raiding the fridge afterwards too.
I prefer to make love in the morning. There's no better way to start the day after a good night's sleep. Yes, there is that "morning breath" to deal with (Even if you brushed you teeth and rinsed your mouth before you sacked out the night before), but so what? "Mmmmm [kiss]. Gooood Morning! [toungue kiss] Mmmmmmm! [kiss]" -- Skeeter