Do you have explicit chat with your partner during sex?

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  1. Klimax2gether

    Klimax2gether Members

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    For mutual pleasure during sex it is important for both partners to have uninhibited conversation about how they pleasure each other. My wife and I (married for +20 years) during sex session enter her in missionary position and keep inside for about 45 minutes before climaxing. During this time we talk many things including sex matters. Finally we climax almost at the same time.

    What do other couples do?
     
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  2. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    My girl and I are going to remain virgins for the next few weeks, but I would like for us to talk about all kinds of everyday matters as well as sexually explicit things during sex. It all depends on what kind of mood we're in at the time. Just whatever we might mutter naturally is fine, I suppose.
     
  3. Klimax2gether

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    Yes, the mood determines what we do sexually. We feel it is very relaxing to have a conversation while I am inside my wife. This also keeps both partners at the edge for long time and enjoy the intimate pleasures.
     
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  4. Slutty Sue

    Slutty Sue Visitor

    When i am having sex with my hubby i love being spoken to hot & dirty. Love being called all sorts of filthy names. Such a huge turn on for me.
     
  5. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    What things do you talk about? Hopefully not about what’s for dinner lol
     
  6. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    We just talk dirty to each other.
     
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  7. Klimax2gether

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    Mainly about how we are pleasuring each other. Or sometimes about things we watched on TV. Sometimes if we watched a porn clip whether some of the scenes are real or fake. Please suggest any exciting things I can talk.
     
  8. nakedrhode

    nakedrhode Member

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    Yes we love dirty talk during sex
     
  9. Goander

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    Yes, naughty talk and instructions are the best.
     
  10. JetDriver

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    Love dirty talk during sex -- makes it more intense! :)
     
  11. Comic85

    Comic85 Senior Member

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    Love dirty talk during sex or masturbation...the nastier the better! Every now and then when my wife's out I get myself worked up and ring a phone sex line...just love talking filth while getting off!
     
  12. Panama Jack

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    My wife and I talk sex all the time. That’s how we stay sexed up. We make comments about our genitalia during the day and flash each. We routinely ask sexual questions to each other. It helps us play out fantasies in our minds.Yes, we talk trashy to each other before and during sex. We have a saying, “ You should be able to talk nasty to your spouse”. However, we treat each other with a hugh amount of respect in public, but we are always rubbing against each other and teasing.
     
  13. lmm00

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    We talk dirty during sex most times. Things get really, really dirty if we are role playing.

    We also just talk about sex a lot. We will lay in bed and talk about things we like or things we want to try. It usually leads to sex. Haha
     
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  14. Deidre

    Deidre Follow thy heart

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    Yes, I like hearing him talk to me during sex. About anything really. His voice is nice...deep. Yum.
     
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  15. Deejay88

    Deejay88 Visitor

    Deidre how you been beautiful
     
  16. olderndirt

    olderndirt Senior Member

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    We talk about what we want our partner to do, about memorable sex events that we have enjoyed together, and about her past experiences. Sometimes it's just expressing how we feel, such as, "I love to feel you inside me." Or more explicit terms.
     
  17. ArtyB

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    I love talking dirty to my wife,when she dominates me it sounds better
     
  18. Born25YearsTooLate

    Born25YearsTooLate Hunting the mighty whifflesnark

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    I like it, and love it when she does it back.
     
  19. Panama Jack

    Panama Jack Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    If you can’t trash/dirty talk with your “trusted” sex partner, then who could you talk dirty too.
    Just sayin.
    My wife and I respect each other, but we love to tease and use dirty talk for sex. Turns us both on. Simple as that.
     
  20. jimandjan

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    We started an open relationship, but part of the deal was to tell each other who we seen. She wanted a few details when I was with another. I think she was a bit jealous at first, but wanted to hear all. When she told me, I could always tell when she had enjoyed it. We did this while making love.
     

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