Do you have anyone you share your kinks and interests with

How many people have someone other than a SO that they can talk to about their kinks and stuff like that. Like im into pegging and solo anal play. But also found out I like sucking on a dildo. Not that it matters but I'd never suck a real dick, when I do it alone I fantasize that it's my wife wearing a strapon and fucking my face. My own wife doesn't know some of the stuff I'm into and do alone because I've told her some and she's not into it. And my best friend knows about the pegging but we don't really talk about it. I've always wished I had someone I could talk to when I'm excited about something I just did or plan to do. Not sexting or anything like that just conversations of a more private manner

 

My wife

 

My wife is very vanilla and really not open to much... she has pegged me a few times but makes it clear she's doing it because she knows I want it and she doesn't want to. So sadly I try to not ask her to do it. Which really sucks

 

Sorry

 

Worst part is she has such a lower libido than me plus being way more vanilla we barely do anything. So it just keeps building and I keep thinking of everything I want to do with her. And it never happens. And I can't even tell her what I want. It gets so frustrating. And even when I have a good solo session there's been times when I want to tell someone about it I can't

 

No way

 

My wife was always a great sexual partner. But was never one to express or discuss our sexual things. Now she is non sexual and won't talk of the past either. I do have someone who was a great conversationalist about our sex lives. Unfortunately we don't have much contact anymore

 

Yeah that definitely stinks

 

What

 

Well since I don't have any friends to talk with about this stuff and I guess I'm to new to message anyone I'll share here. I'm going to try to get my wife to peg me tonight. I don't have my hopes up but we'll see. Ideally I'd love for her to help stretch me out some with her fingers and use our big dildo on me. It's about 2.25 wide and about 8-9 inches insertable. It's literally ALL I can take. I'm not sure I've taken it balls deep yet. The main dildo I use for anal is probably 1.75 inch wide and 7 inches insertable. It's a nice size. Feel full without a struggle. I'd be just fine if she agreed to use that.

 

:-(

 

So My biggest kink is pegging. Just talked to the wife and it's probably never going to happen again. She hates it, I love it. So I'm in a no win situation. Either she does it to make me happy and I feel like shit for it.. or we dont do it and I feel like shit because I want it. I told her I'm just gonna have to find time to do it myself I guess... really sucks but that's life

 

I have no one, wish I did. I do not mind telling my secrets to someone who understands.

 

Girl friend now wife, were always very open with each other. Having open relationship, we told each about our encounters. If I had a friend with benefits, that I meet with numerous times, I would talk openly and always told them that we had open relationship. Sometimes they would open up and tell me more, and always wondered how things worked between us.

 

I used to have someone to share things with

 

I wish I did but if my wife knew about the kinky stuff I like she would be shocked.
Mostly because she is very vanilla in bed.

 

Yes, indeed...me and my suck buddy confide in one another. I tell him all my kinks, after all...we blow one another! I'm STILL trying to set up a fuck-lick session with him and a willing, wet, hairy vulva owner. Had one almost lined up, she's the one with the chocolate labia I had the pleasure to orally please, here a while back. They were the fuck part, and I was going to be the suck part. Still working on it!

His wife is cool with his man to man encounters, just doesn't want to hear about it. My wife has no idea and probably wouldn't even begin to comprehend, so I keep the lid tightly sealed on that can of worms!

 

Just ordered 3 new toys... 2 dildos and a butt plug. And my wife acts annoyed that I spent money on that kind of stuff... she gets upset when I ask her to peg me so I stop asking her and tell her I'll just do it myself. Then she gets upset when I buy myself new toys... I can't win

 

Just my wife, no secrets and willing to try almost anything

 

When were active several years ago, we were much the same way no anal only straight sex. I miss those days.