Do you ever smile at random people on the street?

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  1. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    I've started doing this more often. it might be a little creepy for some, but it feels good to make eye contact with a stranger. Saying Hi to random people is also ok...you ever do this or am i the only nutter?
    I love it when i try to make eye contact and the person turns away instantly, it's like people are afraid of being looked at...but why?
     
  2. TheGanjaKing

    TheGanjaKing Newbie

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    I've laughed at random people on the street, but never smiled at them
     
  3. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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  4. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    I try to put on a fake little smile whenever I'm out in public... if i'm not smiling I tend to look like I'm about to start stabbing people.

    as for looking away, well, in our society it's rude to stare. It's not that we're afraid to look at someone, it's that it's quite rude by society's standards to be staring at someone, particularly someone you don't know. It's also awkward and uncomfortable when someone you don't know is staring at you, at least for me it is (I don't mean glancing occasionally, I mean staring)
     
  5. maryfairy

    maryfairy flower

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    i always smile at people on the street. .. or the ones who are giving me dirty looks, i smile and start skipping or give them a peace sign or something. just cause i think its funny i'm getting dirty looks for being a "damn hippie" haha

    most people dont look away when i smile though.. they smile back.
     
  6. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Usually when I'm walking on the street by myself, I'm just listening to music and I'm too deep inside my own head to notice what's happening around me. But I do like smiling at random people. Not like staring at them but like.. just giving them a quick smile.
     
  7. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    haha, i smile at random people all the time. its fun. i also try and make them laugh someitmes or i try to say stupid things about something they have on them...like if they are carrying lunch, i'll say "nice take out lunch you got there, what is it?" or if they have water, i 'll say "that wouldn't happen to be vodka, now would it?"
     
  8. HippyLandscaper

    HippyLandscaper learning a new way

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    I smile at everyone, When I was younger I had a little snoopy poster that had a picture of snoopy with a big smile on his face. The caption read "Smile, it'll make people wonder what you've been up to".
     
  9. wizarddrew77

    wizarddrew77 The Wiz

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    Oh yeah. I smile at them-wave at them and talk to as many strangers as possible. EVERY person in my life now was once a STRANGER!
     
  10. wizarddrew77

    wizarddrew77 The Wiz

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    LOL I had him too!
     
  11. lovelightlisa

    lovelightlisa Senior Member

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    yip :) same here


    indeedy :)
     
  12. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    Here in the south that's common.
     
  13. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    If I make eye contact with a stranger I smile, though depending on my mood, it might come off as being half assed
     
  14. sara_rose

    sara_rose Ice Queen

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    No i sometimes do that too. It feels nice when they smile back :)
     
  15. Therefore...

    Therefore... Antidentite

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    I usually have a smile on my face, so I end up smiling at strangers all the time. It's always great when they smile back.
     
  16. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    yes i do...i'm with the wiz on this one....
    strangers are just friends i haven't met yet:)
     
  17. mellow

    mellow Eased

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    same as me
     
  18. lakshen

    lakshen Forn Siưr

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    haha, yeah I always smile and love eyecontct when walking le streets, sometimes greet them too...

    Actually once I had the big nasty cut thingie on my upper lip, really bloody, so when I was walking down a street to go to the doc to get the stiches out, everybody was looking at me, but the second I looked at them they looked down, it was really weird :D And kinda pathetic... We humans are strange creatures
     
  19. psyche

    psyche fun for the whole family

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    i always smile or say hi when i walk by someone and they make eye contact with me. that's pretty much the norm where i live. it's also common to be sitting at a bus stop or somesuch place and have someone just start talking to you like you're old friends and they're picking up the conversation where we left off yesterday. i like it.
     
  20. Death

    Death Grim Reaper Lifetime Supporter

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    people around here arent really that friendly. sometimes ill be walking down the streeet and me and my fellow passer by will be like "hI WASSSUP GREAT DAY MATE HAVE FUN WHEREVER YOURE GOIN"

    other times people wont even look up as if i have lazer eyes or something. Then sometimes people scare me off and im the one afraid to make eye contact.
     
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