Do you deserve to be happy?

well, do you?

 

nah. no one DESERVES happiness. happiness is a fleeting thing we find on our own if we're smart.

 

happiness is not a privledge or a right..

Noone deserves to be happy..

if someone feels they desrve to be happy im sure they are a miserable human being wallowing in there self pitty..

 

that's a pretty deep question

 

i absolutely do - and i am

 

I think everyone deserves happiness. I would liek for everyone to have it. Happiness should spread like wildfire and run as free as a wild mustang.

 

I don't think I deserve to be happy. Sometimes I wish I was never happy because then it couldn't get taken. Just a thought.

 

When I think of the many people who are so unhappy and struggling in this world, it sometimes makes me feel guilty being happy. I have an easy life really, compared to many. I have all the love I could ever want, a beautiful family, a roof over my head, food in my belly, the opportunity to be at home caring for my children...what more could I ask for? Then I think of those who don't have any of that. And, well, it makes me feel bad.

But do I deserve to be happy? I think so. I think everyone deserves happiness in their lives, and it's a shame that it can't be that way.

 

everyone should be content with his living irrespective of his/her situation, doing this we show the universe that we deserve to be happy, that we happy with what we have now and we get more.the more love we give to the world, the more we get back. thats my motto. any complaints??

 

I can definitely understand why it would make you feel bad, but I really don't think you should. You have what you do, and are where you are, because of the decisions you've made in your life. Many people that struggle for those things do so because of themeselves. While I realize there are cases of extreme 'bad luck' and unfortunate circumstance, I truly believe that it is personal oversight that causes most peoples personal struggle.

 

ugh

 

ugh? That doesn't even make sense as a reply, lady. You might as well have let out a burp.

 

it does too.. booga is not happy these days.. and well.. ain't got anyone to talk to it about.. NO i'm not going to post about it here.. google will find me and tel everyone my business

so.. ugh!

 

You're right, I know. But what about those who try and try, but never seem to get ahead? Or who have one bad thing after another happen to them? I can't help but feel sorry.

 

Even then, as callous as this sounds, I believe much of it is do to poor decision making and oversight. For instance, somebody with a mediocre car quits the job they had down the street for a $0.50 an hour raise and a job that's 20 miles away. Car breaks down, person loses job, and most of us call it bad luck. I call it poor decision making. Again, I know there are instances of actual bad happenstance, but for the most part I really dont think that is the case.

 

Happiness is what you make of it. What might be considered happy is viewed differently by everyone. I do believe though that everyone should enjoy the time they have on this earth

 

You can talk to me if you'd like. You should be happy though. You appearantly have three kids that love you very much and you said you're getting plenty of sex. I mean that's a great start on its own.

 

uumm ugh.. 3 kids yes..


sex? i'm not so sure about..

see now i've said too much

 

So you're not getting any then? That was a quick turn around from plenty to not sure.

 

something is just not right.. i'm missing something once again.. doesn't matter anyways.. he's leaving.. and i have the feeling he's just sick of me already


i'm a burden.. simple as that.. makes me unhappy because there isn't much i can do about it